50/50 parenting should be the default position in divorce – think about it!

February 28, 2013 § Leave a comment

50/50 parenting should be the default position in divorce – think about it!

50/50 parenting should be the default position in divorce – think about it!

Divorce courts in America are destroying any chance of maintaining the children’s mental health by interfering with parenting, promoting conflict by discouraging mediation and encouraging that a divorce should be an adversarial proceeding, as well as encouraging the racketeering that goes on when judges enrich court-appointed attorneys, counselors and therapists by appointing them in an open-ended instead of limited fashion and only when necessary.

Courts are the wrong place for divorce decisions to be made as they are inherently an adversarial proceeding. We need mediation outside of the court to be the default position in any dissolution of a marriage, particularly if it involves children. We need a complete overhaul of laws related to dissolution of marriage, as well as about probate issues such as guardians for elders – another area of court abuse of families.

Judges, lawyers, and most of the court-appointed hacks knows as GALs, child representatives, and evaluators (often who make their business promoting conflict to draw out their appointment and make more money in this cottage industry) end up raping the estates of families and even taking the children’s college funds to pay for their fees.

Instead of promoting stabilization and financial security, the judges and lawyers work hard to end careers, teach children to be entitled and view parents as only deep pockets, promote parental alienation and defamation, as well as destroy the very stability necessary for a child to cope with divorce.

We need to ask Pres. Obama to make a task force on dissolution of marriage, paternity issues, and probate issues so that our country can advance socially as much as we have advanced technologically. We need to stop the court abuse of children, the elderly, and families in general.

Sign a petition to ask President Obama to appoint a task force to study divorce, child custody, family mediation, and ways to take divorce out of the courts, end court abuse, and let parents decide how to parent. Cleck here for petition.

With the dissolution of the family, the mobility that is breaking up the family, and the greed of the divorce cottage industry, we have a very big crisis in America, and around the world. We need to lead in solving this problem. Write President Obama and ask him to make this task force his priority in his second term.

The following two videos are powerful messages about the role of fathers and the need for equal parenting.

A video about promoting equal parenting and actor Baldwin’s new book about divorce and the need for equal parenting:

http://www.causes.com/actions/1659887-lets-make-family-law-cps-reform-the-new-obama-administrations-priority-issue-for-2013

A powerful video talking about the “father wound” that plagues a person for life if the father is absent:

http://www.causes.com/actions/1734438-the-father-effect-revised-edition?recruiter_id=137911074&token=970i8qT3PGuUmV7pyeOOJHka&utm_campaign=activity_invitation_mailer%2Factivity_invitation&utm_medium=email&utm_source=causes

Extensive posts, links, and videos about corruption in family court and the damage to the families:

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Time for some audience participation.

February 28, 2013 § Leave a comment

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Time for some audience participation.

“I have a question for everyone sitting here tonight. How many of you sitting here tonight have a job where you have total immunity? Please raise your hand if you have a job where you have total immunity. Really? No one in this room has a job where they have total immunity?”

We all have jobs where we must do the following…

1. Follow the law and rules
2. Do the right thing
3. Not harm anyone

Yet the people with the most important job in the world, family court judges, have total immunity and no accountability. They don’t have to follow the law, do the right thing, follow their canons of conduct and are causing harm to our children and families.”

Wendy Archer at Capital Hill

JUDGE PORNLITO

February 27, 2013 § Leave a comment

WHAT A CROCK OF (DOG CRAP,SH_T). THEY SHOULD HAVE DIBARRED HIM AND TOOK AWAY HIS PENSION AND MAKE HIM PAY BACK THE MONEY HE STOLE?
THE FRAUD HE COMMITTED AGAINST THE STATE AND COUNTY ON THE TAX PAYERS DIME WE PAID HIM OVER $172,000.00 A YEAR.
OUR PORN JUDGE POLITO WILL GET THIS WHEN HE RETIRES AND GETSA FULL PENSION AND RAISES EVERY YEAR?????

http://www.suntimes.com/17948665-761/porn-addicted-judge-suspended-for-two-months.html

Porn-addicted judge suspended for two months – Chicago Sun-Times
http://www.suntimes.com
A porn-addicted judge who used his courthouse computer to view hard-core sex websites has been suspended without pay for 60 days.

kill VAWA///violance against woman act

February 27, 2013 § Leave a comment

(( STAND STRONG INCREASE Department of Justice CUTS )) In Maryland activist judges release known criminals after huge Federal investigations, costing tax payers millions. NOW judicial abuse of the public expands to a national level. http://www.cbsnews.com/8301-18563_162-57571459/reason-for-mass-release-of-illegal-immigrants-hard-to-believe-boehner-says/

Boehner blasts “outrageous” mass release of illegal immigrants
http://www.cbsnews.com
House speaker says it’s “hard to believe” release of illegal immigrants was the most sensible way to save ahead of sequestration.

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David Carlin KILL VAWA in the U. S. HOUSE. Department of Justice malfeasance needs to end , the intentional release of known violent criminals is a tactic used in the past to threaten Congress to support “Judicial branch political agendas”. KILL VAWA IN THE HOUSE!! Heal the FAMILY, HEAL your COMMUNITY. MAKE THE CALLS, Kill VAWA. http://www.house.gov/representatives/

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Steven Watkins Visitation Interference Bill

February 26, 2013 § Leave a comment

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Illinois Fathers

At approximately 3 30 pm this afternoon, we received word that Governor Quinn signed into law the Steven Watkins Visitation Interference Bill. This is a huge victory for Fathers in Illinois. At no point in our State’s history do we know of a piece of “Father Friendly” legislation even seeing the light of day, much less actually getting signed into law. To all of our members who were a part of this effort, we are truly without words. Thank you so much for your efforts. We have received a great deal of feedback regarding both our new Illinois Fathers Tri-Fold, http://www.illinoisfathers.org/wp-content/uploads/2012/08/flyeraugust-19-3.docx / and also our soon to be released window stickers. If anyone cannot open the link to the tri-fold, please e-mail us at board@illinoisfathers.org and we will send you a PDF copy of the tri-fold brochure. Thanks so much for those of you who are putting the Tri-Fold out there and giving us the locations of placement. Our Area Coordinator in Saint Clair County would like for Illinois Fathers to work a booth at the Belleville Chili Fest Event during the weekend of Friday October 4th thru Sunday October 6th of NEXT YEAR 2013. “Working a Booth” means that Illinois Fathers would have a presence at this event that draws tens of thousands of people. We would not only hang our banner and hand out our literature, but we will also be cooking and selling something to raise funds. Illinois Fathers leadership has had just a little bit of fun with this idea, proposing that our menu contain only 2 items, i.e. the divorced father’s plate which includes a burnt generic hot dog / and then the divorced mother’s plate which would include a large bratwurst on an exotic hot dog bun with all the trimmings. All of that is just speculation currently, but the important thing is manpower. If we are going to do this, we need people willing to work the booth. If you are willing to help us out and can commit to being with us during the weekend of Friday Oct. 4 – Sunday Oct. 6th, 2013 in Belleville, please e-mail us at board@illinoisfathers.org btw – if we do not receive enough committments, we simply will not book the event. upcoming – an Illinois Fathers parade float in some parades in Southern Illinois the committee for the office of visitation enformcement is formed and in the early stages of planning a meeting is scheduled for Thurs. Oct. 5th in Champaign/Urbana – stay tuned for more details we are working on scheduling a meeting in Chicago which will include a free showing of Guilty Until Proven Innocent Illinois Fathers is run by our board of directors Tim Brown President Ian Mitchell Treasurer Juan Carlos Felipe Board Member Travis Turner Board Member Penny Watkins Board Member Area Coordinators Jeff Smith Saint Clair County Donald Howard Jackson County Jim Weddigen Sangamon County Randy Bates Kane County Khalid Paden Greater Chicago Illinois Fathers Advisor Mr. Robert Ferrer Illinois Fathers Executive Director Mr. General Parker Committee for the Office of Visitation Enforcement Ms. Penny Watkins Chairperson Mr. Shangwe Parker Mr. Cory Griffith Atty. Mick Gerhardt Ms. Kimberly Stanton Mr. Wayne Fisher Ms. Amy Fisher Thank you for being a part of Illinois Fathers Tim Brown President Illinois Fathers

Sample Freedom of Information Act (FOIA) 5 ILCS 140/1,et seq.,

February 26, 2013 § Leave a comment

Lisa Weitekamp

FOIA Officer

Illinois Department of Corrections

Subject: foia requests #__________________

Subject: FOIA Request
Dear FOIA Officer, Lisa Weitekamp
I am submitting this email to you today under the Freedom of Information Act (FOIA) 5 ILCS 140/1,et seq., as amended by Public Act 96-542 effective 1-1-2010.
This FOIA request is expected to be fulfilled within the statutory time requirements as set forth by 5 ILCS 140/3 Section 3(d) “Each public body shall, promptly, either comply with or deny a request for public records within 5 business days after its receipt of the request, unless the time for response is properly extended under subsection (e) of this Section.
What I want to know is information on the Dept of Corrections of IL.
(1) D.O.C. SET OF TREATMENT PROTOCOLS?
A: THAT A (RN) WOULD FOLLOW .
B: THAT A (CNA) WOULD FOLLOW.
C: THAT A (LPN) WOULD FOLLOW.
(2)D.O.C. SET OF TREATMENT PROTOCOLS?
A: THAT A (PHYSICIAN) WOULD FOLLOW.
B: THAT A (PSYCHING ASSISTANT) WOULD FOLLOW.
(3) D.O.C. SET OF TREATMENT PROTOCOLS FOR INMATES OF.
A: FOR HIGH RISK INMATES WITH (HIV).
B: FOR PREGNANT FEMALE INMATES IN ALL STAGES OF PREGNANCY,
OR IN 3 TRIMESTER AND WAITING TO DELIVER .
C: FOR MALE OR FEMALE INMATES.
This FOIA request is also being submitted with a waiver of the fee under 5 ILCS 140/6 Section 6(c).
Specifically, this FOIA request is being submitted in the public interest and for the purpose of the public’s access to and dissemination of information regarding the health, safety and welfare or the legal rights of the general public. Since State of Illinois citizens, specifically, parents and their children, including my children and me, are the alleged victims of alleged illegal acts by public officials engaging in alleged racketeering activities, labeled by a certified State legislative report as “cottage industries” operating “in practice” in Illinois’ family court system and involving alleged federal funding fraud, the response to this FOIA request directly affects the health, safety and welfare and the legal rights of the general public.
Information can be sent to the following address or emailed:____________________________________

NAME:

ADDRESS:

Respectfully submitted,

NAME:

If you feel that you are not subject to an FOIA request, please inform me in writing immediately so that I can cause a subpoena for documents to issue.Or set up a time for inspection of the records.

BEHAVIOR Impeding with visitation, despite orders.

February 26, 2013 § Leave a comment

Examples of Alienating Behavior

BEHAVIOR Impeding with visitation, despite orders.

1.Denigrating the other parent in front of anyone who will listen, including the children, as well as calling the TP or step-parent derogatory names in front of the child.
2.Filing allegations of abuse while constantly dragging the ex into court for child support or alimony.
3.Stopping any contact with the children and the exes extended family or friends who disagree with them. Believing that they are above the law, and that all orders/laws were made for everyone else but them.
4.Impeding Communication with the children, including blocking access to school records and meeting and events.
5.Grilling the children about their visit, asking the children to spy or collect evidence.
6.Refusing visitation because the ex spouse has been unable to afford the child support or not made a payment.
7.Statements of constant hatred and vengeance about the ex-spouse. Refusal to disclose their home address.
8.Refusal to supply or keep the other parent in the loop on medical issues, educational issues, events pertaining to the child/ren and so on.
9.Continually referring to the child as their own children and not the spouses.
10.Continually not enforcing the visitation with the other parent by claiming the children do not want to go (Barring no true abuse is truly going on) and using the excuse that they are not going to force the children to go see their other parent if they do not want to.Impeding any court orders, including Counseling orders.
11.Moving the children away from a parent they once had a loving relationship with, and thus making visitation and a relationship next to impossible.
12.The List goes on and on …
Please feel to add post or comment and share with others any behavior you think is not “In the best interest of Child/Children”

Together and only Together can We make a difference to stop Parental Alienation. You can Help STOP Parental Alienation by bringing Awareness and Education to all you know.

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