Parental Alienation Awareness Day

April 24, 2017 § Leave a comment

Tomorrow is Parental Alienation Awareness Day… Do you think you could possibly spare a moment of thought, prayer, phone call to your Reps and Senators etc.. to help end this form of Abuse???? Go on their FB pages, their emails, snail mail..whatever..and tell them that Children deserve to be able to “Freely Love And Spend Equal Time With Both Parents And Sides Of Their Family Without Fear Of Repercussions”!!!!! Is it that difficult to do…or do you, just not get it?????
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Tammy Mariposa
February 8 ·
How many shares to save our children?

Whispering in Corners

So I feel helpless what can I do?
What do I tell those friends whispering in corners?
‘Yes his son won’t speak to him!’
‘Why what has he done?’
Oh I don’t know it must be bad he lives with his Mum now I think she has custody!

Here’s what you do guys!
You begin to put aside your feelings of guilt and shame.
You have nothing to be ashamed of.
It’s time to expose the destructive insidious pathogen that’s eating away like a cancer through generations of families destroying relationships with our loved ones through ignorance alone!
It’s time Narcissistic Personality Disorder and Parental Alienation caused by Abuse by Proxy by a pathogenic parent came out of hiding like some dirty secret on the Internet.
It’s time to educate everyone so they understand and can help spread awareness of this evil disease taking and damaging our children.

So here’s what each and everyone of you must do!
Stand proud and explain your children have been taught to hate you!
Here I have summarised Dr Childress Attachment Theory of Parental Alienation’

Alienated children internalise the sad angry feelings they have been taught towards the once bonded parent when really they are feeling grief like that parent died. They think these feelings are their own and don’t realise that re bonding the relationship would remove those sad angry feelings and make the child feel better again’
Dr Childress attachment theory of Parental Alienation

This is the meme I have used to educate my friends! It explains it perfectly so educate your family and friends,and anyone you come across through this nightmare.social workers,family support workers,,solicitors and teachers,and the police.

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Legally Kidnapped

April 15, 2017 § Leave a comment

Legally Kidnapped
A Right-Wing Think Tank Is Trying to Bring Down the Indian Child Welfare Act. Why?
Foster mother in child sex crime case extradited back to Alabama
State should intervene in perilous foster care cases
Films Like ‘The Boss Baby’ Can Be Painful for Adoptees and Foster Kids
Wake senator leading charge to overhaul NC child welfare system
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PARENTS FIGHT TO KEEP ADOPTED CHILD, TAKE CASE TO STATE SUPREME COURT
A Right-Wing Think Tank Is Trying to Bring Down the Indian Child Welfare Act. Why?
Posted: 06 Apr 2017 05:44 AM PDT
Native Americans say the law protects their children. The Goldwater Institute claims it does the opposite.

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Foster mother in child sex crime case extradited back to Alabama
Posted: 05 Apr 2017 06:16 PM PDT

The foster mother at the center of a large child sex crime and abuse investigation is now back in the Shoals.

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State should intervene in perilous foster care cases
Posted: 05 Apr 2017 05:07 PM PDT
There is an article on your website about a child who, police say, was shot and killed by his parents. He was shot after being reunified with his drug addicted and neglectful biological parents.

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Films Like ‘The Boss Baby’ Can Be Painful for Adoptees and Foster Kids
Posted: 05 Apr 2017 05:00 PM PDT
During family movie night some years ago, in an effort to spare my daughters’ delicate sensibilities, I lunged for the remote control to stifle “Jerry Maguire” during a sex scene I’d forgotten all about. What I managed to hit was the fast-forward button. What ensued onscreen might be described as high-speed porn.

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Wake senator leading charge to overhaul NC child welfare system
Posted: 05 Apr 2017 04:47 PM PDT
Saying North Carolina’s child welfare system has failed too many youngsters for too long, Sen. Tamara Barringer, R-Wake, said Wednesday it’s time to overhaul the system.

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BRPD: teen in custody after disturbance at group home
Posted: 05 Apr 2017 03:30 PM PDT
Baton Rouge Police Department’s Special Response Team was called to a group home in the 1300 block of Main Street around 3 a.m. Wednesday morning.

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PARENTS FIGHT TO KEEP ADOPTED CHILD, TAKE CASE TO STATE SUPREME COURT
Posted: 05 Apr 2017 02:38 PM PDT
A couple isn’t giving up their fight to keep the little girl they believe is their own.

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Murdered Father Andrew Maul it speaks for it’s self sick parents?

April 15, 2017 § Leave a comment

Murdered Father Andrew Maul

Andrew Maul was shot and killed while sitting in the Jacksonville Municipal Building parking lot near the Police Station. The accused murderer is Robert Gill, ex father-in-law of the slain father. More details http://m.sj-r.com/article/20150916/NEWS/150919611/10287/NEWS
On January 6th, 2016 at 9am at the Morgan County Courthouse, the accused Robert Gill will be appearing in court and Illinois Fathers is putting together a group of court watchers to attend. The point man for this effort will be Illinois Father’s member Mr. Brian Caldwell bears4life5405@gmail.com If you can attend please contact Brian.

On November 25th, 2008 a similar event unfolded where Steven Watkins was shot and killed, also by a member of the in-laws. Illinois Fathers teamed up with the Watkin’s followers and introduced to the Illinois legislature, “The Steven Watkins Visitation Interference Bill”. Efforts were ultimately successful in getting the bill passed. However, on the negative end, to this day, the late Steven Watkins parents still are not allowed to have visitation with Steven’s daughter, despite the fact that it is court ordered. The mother continues to flaunt the new law without consequences.

Although all the details are still not out in the Andrew Maul case, it appears to be a similar case of the Mother and her extended family feeling entitled to absolute ownership of the children, and the fathers who try to fulfill their paternal responsibility end up paying the ultimate price. We hope that some of you can join us on January 6th at the Morgan County Courthouse in Jacksonville.

In an earlier newsletter, we explained that by encouraging you, our membership to take the time to participate in the Kroger Rewards Program could turn out to be a very helpful move for this organization. The more of our membership that can take the time to obtain a saver’s card and sign it up with Illinois Fathers as the receiving organization, the larger a check Kroger will send to Illinois Fathers at the end of every fiscal quarter. We have also learned that a number of stores bearing names other than “Kroger” are actually affiliated with Kroger and are also part of the Rewards Program. These stores are, Ruler, Jay C, Food 4 Less, Kwik Shop, Gerbes, Foodsco, Quik Stop Market and Turkey Hill. We should also clarify that if you get your Savers Card signed up with Illinois Fathers, you are not losing your savings that you get anyway from using the savings card. No surcharge is added to your receipt. Essentially, you are out of pocket absolutely nothing, except for what you are spending on groceries already. If you are a shopper at any of these grocery outlets, please consider taking the time to get a Savers Card and go online to https://www.kroger.com/topic/kroger-community-rewards-3 You then click on the link for your State, (Kentucky, Indian and Illinois), then you enter the 12 digit number on your Kroger Card. Our organization is named Illinois Fathers and our organization number is 47773. Once you complete the process, it might take a few days for your card to start working for Illinois Fathers. When it does start, you will notice a message at the very bottom of your Kroger receipt that reads, “Thanks for joining us in supporting ILLINOIS FATHERS”

Another fundraising opportunity is Amazon. If you shop at “Amazon Smile” anytime you shop at Amazon, you can also benefit Illinois Fathers. More information can be found on our facebook page.

Thank you for being a part of Illinois Fathers
Steven Westerfield
President
Illinois Fathers

Legally Kidnapped

January 5, 2017 § Leave a comment

Legally Kidnapped
Hidden camera in bathroom lands foster family director in trouble
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Hidden camera in bathroom lands foster family director in trouble
Posted: 05 Jan 2017 05:30 AM PST
The director of a foster family agency is scheduled to be tried this month in Fresno County Superior Court on a misdemeanor charge of failing to report child abuse.

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Child Abuse in the Military: Failing Those Most in Need
Posted: 05 Jan 2017 05:25 AM PST
In September 2011, Army Sgt. 1st Class Crispen Hanson’s commander at Fort Bliss ordered him into a military treatment program for child abusers.

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Judge to rule in case involving death of Detroit boy
Posted: 05 Jan 2017 05:22 AM PST
A judge plans to review materials and rule Thursday whether the case against two state workers accused of causing the death of a 3-year-old boy will proceed to trial.

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Study shows foster care may be bad for children’s health
Posted: 04 Jan 2017 03:01 PM PST
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Agency faces lawsuit over death of child in foster care
Posted: 04 Jan 2017 03:00 PM PST
Luzerne County Children and Youth Services is involved in a “desperate attempt to obstruct and complicate” the relationship between the parents of a child who died after being placed in foster care and the attorney now suing the county on their behalf, according to documents filed in court Thursday.

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Grieving grandfather seeks Trump’s ear on child abuse
Posted: 04 Jan 2017 02:55 PM PST
Note: I’m posting this link for those who think that Trump will help them fix child welfare.

John Geer is a desperate man.

Reeling from grief after his 3-year-old granddaughter Brook Stagles died last month from injuries sustained in a beating that allegedly came at the hands of her father’s girlfriend, Geer has found his mission: raising awareness of child abuse and the pressures faced by the often undermanned, overburdened agencies responsible for protecting the most vulnerable.

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Arkansas Senator Issues “Child Welfare Manifesto” – Child Abuse Perpetrated by the State Must Stop
Posted: 04 Jan 2017 02:43 PM PST
As an Arkansas State Senator, Alan Clark has taken seriously his responsibility to hear the voice of the people in his state. When citizens brought the story of the Stanley family to his attention, he investigated.

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STATE CARE OR LEGALIZED KIDNAPPING – WHICH SIDE DO YOU SEE IT FROM?
Posted: 04 Jan 2017 07:53 AM PST
Norway is a beautiful Scandinavian country encompassing mountains, glaciers and deep coastal fjords. Norway has been ranked No 1 in the world’s Prosperity index for Wealth & Wellbeing.

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Iowa woman reunites with son nearly 40 years after adoption
Posted: 04 Jan 2017 07:32 AM PST
An eastern Iowa woman has reunited with her son nearly 40 years after she placed him for adoption.

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Plymouth Parents Charged with Neglect after 7-Year-Old Boy Dies
Posted: 04 Jan 2017 05:54 AM PST
A Plymouth mother and father have been charged with neglect after a 7-year-old boy was found unresponsive and died.

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The appearance of some real scumbags AKA child reps…

December 5, 2016 § Leave a comment

So i have posted some US case laws, here is one from Illinois. I will be concentrating on them for a few days (prepping for trial)
Illinois State Supreme Court case (NOT a federal)
Bates v Bates, 819 N.E.2d 714 (2004) ILLINOIS
– Dr. Richard Gardner referenced several books on PAS and an index of 56 articles on PAS.
– He described PAS as a disorder arising primarily, if not exclusively, in the context of child custody disputes
– it results from the combination of one parent’s programming or brainwashing a child into a campaign of denigration against the other parent, and the undue in documentation of the child by the programming parent with his or her own inflated “contributions”
– Dr. Robert B. Shapiro, a clinical psychologist, licensed in Illinois and a member of the Board of Evaluate families in custody disputes, also testified that PAS was generally accepted by the relevant psychologically community, observing that “I don’t know anybody who doesn’t accept it.”
– the court found “that the principle of Parental Alienation Syndrome is sufficiently established to have gained general acceptance in the particular filed.”
– Dr. Gardner defined PAS as a psychiatric disorder arising in the context of a child custody dispute
– In this disorder, one parent “programs” or “brainwashes” a child into a campaign of denigration against the other parent, even though that other parent is generally good and loving
– The denigrating custodial parent inflates his or her own contributions, and PAS arises as a result of a combination of both the undue denigration and the inflated heightening of the custodial parent’s contribution
– the trial court found that Edward had proved, by clear and convincing evidence, that S.B.’s present environment seriously endangered her physical, mental, moral and environmental health, and that it was in S.B.’s best interest that Edward be awarded sole custody immediately
– the court the words “parental alienation syndrome,” basing its findings instead on the standard set out in Section 602(a)(8) of the Act (750 ILCS 5/602(a)(8)), namely:
– “the willingness and ability of each parent to facilitate and encourage a close and continuing relationship between the parents and child.”
– the trial court recited that it would consider the report (from the GAL) “for what its worth” along with many other factors, abd, therefore, any error in considering the report was not prejudicial — 342 Ill.App. 3d at 214-15
– the private interest involved here is the right of parents to the companionship, care, custody, and management of ther children
– in Lassiter v Department if Social Services, 452 US 18, 27, 68L.Ed.2d 640, 649-50, 101 S.Ct. 2153, 2159-60 (1981), the Supreme Court held that right to be an important interest, warranting deference and protection, absent a powerful countervailing interest
– we have also recently held that one of the fundamental rights protected under the Fourteenth Amendment is the right of parents to make decisions concerning the care, custody, and control of their children without unwarranted state intrusion — Wickham v Byrne, 199 Ill. 2d 309, 316 (2002)
in In re Andrea F., 208 Ill.2d 148, 165 (2003), a case involving termination of parental rights, this court held that parents have a fundamental due process right to the care, custody, and contril of their children
– the representative, like any other witness, is not immune from error in observation and from inadvertent bias.
– The proper weight to be given the report of a child;s representative may be influenced by nay factors, including his training and experience, the contacts between the representative, the parties, and the child, and the existence of any bias or tendency to favor one gender of parent over the other
– cross-examination is likely to affect the trial court’s assessment of the worth of the representatives recommendations in many cases
– Section 506(a)(3) is unconstitutional
– representative’s report was received in evidence, read, and relied on by the trial court, and, thus Norma’s right to procedural due process was denied
– Section 610 of the Act allows modification of a prior custody judgement, absent consent, only if the court finds, by clear and convincing evidence, upon facts that have arisen since or were unknown at the time of prior judgement, that modification is necessary to serve the best interest of the child — 750 ILCS 5-610
– the trial court found that S.B.’s present environment seriously endangered her physical, mental, moral or emotional health and that a substantial change in circumstances had been proved by clear and convincing evidence
– the court expressly considered the standards for determining best interests set out in Section 602 of the Act, including “(8) the willingness and ability of each parent to facilitate and encourage a close and continuing relationship between the other parent and the child.” — 750 ILCS 5/602(8)

Legally Kidnapped

December 5, 2016 § Leave a comment

Legally Kidnapped
Police probe death of 1-year-old boy in foster care
International adoptions may get harder due to proposed U.S. regulations
Attorney: Accused in social worker killing unfit for trial
Glynn an anomaly in Georgia foster-care crisis
State cannot issue child care licenses for family detention centers, judgment finds
Police probe death of 1-year-old boy in foster care
Posted: 04 Dec 2016 07:07 AM PST

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International adoptions may get harder due to proposed U.S. regulations
Posted: 04 Dec 2016 06:48 AM PST
Michael was one of more than 15,000 children adopted internationally in 1998. But by 2015, that number had dwindled to 5,647.

And now, international adoption agencies worry that a sweeping set of proposed State Department regulations could erode that number further.

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Attorney: Accused in social worker killing unfit for trial
Posted: 04 Dec 2016 06:34 AM PST
A hearing is expected to be held early next year to help determine if a woman charged with killing a social worker and three relatives in Vermont is fit to stand trial.

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Glynn an anomaly in Georgia foster-care crisis
Posted: 04 Dec 2016 06:20 AM PST
Child foster care issues are well-known in Georgia. Now Georgia’s foster-care problems are known nationwide.

The Associated Press published an article Nov. 13 reporting five states account for almost two-thirds of the national increase of children in foster care. Leading those five is Georgia, which according to the report went from 7,600 foster-care children during September 2013 to 13,266 in October of this year.

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State cannot issue child care licenses for family detention centers, judgment finds
Posted: 04 Dec 2016 06:09 AM PST
A judge issued a final judgment Friday to prevent the state from issuing a child care license for family detention centers, such as the 2,400-bed immigration detention center in Dilley or a 1,000-bed center in Karnes County, according to the Austin-based advocacy group Grassroots Leadership.

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