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David D. Meyer*
The legal treatment of non-custodial parents has become a lightning rod in modern family law. The topic is obviously important. Every year in this country, about one million children see their parents divorce.1 In addition, roughly a third of all children are born to parents who are not married.2 Many of these parents, of course, will never live together, and those who do face a high risk of breaking up before the children are grown.3 Taken together, the trends suggest that fewer than half of all
* Professor of Law and Mildred Van Voorhis Jones Faculty Scholar, University of Illinois College of Law. An earlier draft of this Article was delivered as the 2006 Sidney & Walter Siben Distinguished Professorship Lecture at Hofstra University School of Law. I am most grateful to Professor John DeWitt Gregory and the rest of the Hofstra faculty for their generous hospitality and insightful comments on the lecture.
2. See Brady E. Hamilton et al., Births: Preliminary Data for 2002, NAT’L VITAL STAT. REP. (Ctrs. for Disease Control & Prevention, Hyattsville, Md.), June 25, 2003, at 3 (indicating that 33.8% of all U.S. births in 2002 were to unmarried women), available at; Robert D. Plotnick, Seven Decades of Nonmarital Childbearing in the United States, at 1 (Feb. 2004), available at
3. In the United States, most non-marital births are to women who are not cohabiting with a partner. See Marsha Garrison, Is Consent Necessary? An Evaluation of the Emerging Law of Cohabitant Obligation, 52 UCLA L. REV. 815, 881-82 (2005) [hereinafter Garrison, Is Consent Necessary?]. Unmarried parents who do cohabit are more likely to split up; most cohabiting relationships dissolve within five years. See id. at 839 & nn.90-92; Margaret F. Brinig & Steven L. Nock, Marry Me, Bill: Should Cohabitation Be the (Legal) Default Option?, 64 LA. L. REV. 403, 408 (2004) (discussing social science evidence showing that cohabiting “relationships . . . last a shorter time than marriage, even if there are children”); Marsha Garrison, Reviving Marriage: Should We? Could We?, at 19-22 (Oct. 2005) (unpublished paper available at (discussing evidence of comparative instability and qualification of commitment in cohabiting relationships and noting that “[e]ven the arrival of a child does not appear to alter the feeling that cohabitation is fundamentally different from marriage”) [hereinafter Garrison, Reviving Marriage]; Elizabeth S. Scott, Marriage, Cohabitation and Collective Responsibility for Dependency, 2004 U. CHI. L. FORUM 225, 244-46 (discussing the greater instability of cohabitating relationships); Robin Fretwell Wilson, Evaluating Marriage: Does Marriage Matter to the Nurturing of Children?, 42 SAN DIEGO L. REV. 847, 857, 869-70 (2005) (discussing growing incidence of childrearing and the high rate of dissolution among unmarried, cohabiting couples). As David Popenoe notes, the effective shift of childbearing from marriage into generally less stable non-marital relationships means that even as the divorce rate has leveled off, “[t]he estimated combined breakup rate of both married and unmarried unions . . . continues to escalate.” DAVID POPENOE, LIFE WITHOUT FATHER 20 (1996).

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children born today—and perhaps as few as a quarter—will live with both their parents throughout childhood.4 Defining the custodial rights of divorced or separated parents is therefore likely to be a matter of direct concern for a majority of the nation’s children.
The topic is also timely. Non-custodial parents are in the news as never before. Frustrated parents are seen scaling the walls of Buckingham Palace and other monuments, dressed as superheroes.5 They stare out angry and stone-faced from the front cover of The New York Times Sunday Magazine.6 Their grievances against a family law they see as stacked against them are splashed across billboards and newspaper advertisements.7 And they are said to be coming soon to a theater near you: Miramax recently bought the movie rights to the life story of the founder of Fathers 4 Justice, the British group responsible for much of the surging media attention.8
It is easy to dismiss the antics of some of these activists as loopy or, in some darker cases, just plain depraved. Fathers 4 Justice, for instance, temporarily disbanded in January 2006 after an “extremist splinter group” was accused of plotting to kidnap British Prime Minister Tony Blair’s five-year-old son, Leo, to dramatize their feelings of parental powerlessness.9 But, beyond the stunts and costumes, it is clear that the sense of injury expressed by these activists resonates with a broader
4. See DOUGLAS E. ABRAMS, NAOMI R. CAHN, CATHERINE J. ROSS & DAVID D. MEYER, CONTEMPORARY FAMILY LAW 634 (2006); NANCY E. DOWD, REDEFINING FATHERHOOD 23 (2000) [hereinafter DOWD, REDEFINING FATHERHOOD] (noting that “[f]orty percent of all children do not live with their fathers and, more distressing, it is estimated that the rate will rise to 60 percent for children born in the 1990s”). For the moment, most children in the United States reside with both parents, but the numbers are declining. See SCHEPARD, supra note 1, at 28.
5. See Patrick E. Tyler, Buckingham Palace’s New Tourist Attraction: Batman, N.Y. TIMES, Sept. 14, 2004, at A3; Fathers’ Rights Protesters Scale Westminster Abbey, BIRMINGHAM POST (UK), Apr. 14, 2006, at 7, available at 2006 WLNR 6293956.
6. Susan Dominus, The Fathers’ Crusade, N.Y. TIMES SUNDAY MAGAZINE, May 8, 2005, at 26.
7. See Mary Zemaitis, Billboard Campaign Criticizes Champaign County Judge, DAILY ILLINI, Nov. 2, 2005, at 1. The advertising campaigns of one fathers’ rights organization, the American Coalition for Fathers and Children, are catalogued on its website,
8. See John Higginson, Holy Smoke! The Fathers 4 Justice Film, EVENING STANDARD, Jan. 20, 2006, available at (reporting that “[a]fter two years of fighting between film companies, Disney-owned Miramax has bought the rights to turn the campaign group’s story into a blockbuster”).
9. See Stewart Tendler, Fathers 4 Justice Is Disbanded Over “Plot” To Kidnap Leo Blair, TIMES ONLINE (Jan. 19, 2006), available at,,2-1996209,00.html. The group reemerged dramatically four months later by taking over a BBC television studio during a live broadcast of the national lottery drawing. See Sophie Goodchild, Fathers 4 Justice Storm BBC’s Live Lottery Show, INDEPENDENT ON SUNDAY (UK), May 21, 2006, at 4, available at 2006 WLNR 8723745.

circle of non-custodial parents.10 Because non-custodial parents are overwhelmingly men, the clash over custody is often seen as a front in the so-called “gender wars.”11 Certainly, it is true that the cause of non- custodial parents is championed most visibly by a newly energized Fathers’ Rights movement,12 and that a distressing share of the internet polemics on the topic crackles with misogynistic invective.13 The gender implications of the topic are real, but the issue is not solely about the rights of fathers. There are smaller numbers of women, too—both non- custodial mothers and the new partners of non-custodial fathers—who are agitating for greater empowerment of non-custodial parents.14
Significantly, the push for non-custodial parents’ rights is doing much more than generating headlines; it has already spurred significant changes to family law in some states and, indeed, around the world. The movement’s influence can be seen in laws affecting custody, visitation, child support, and paternity, not only in the United States but also in Australia, Canada, and Europe.15 Non-custodial parents have gained new
10. See Patrick Parkinson, The Past Caretaking Standard in Comparative Perspective, in RECONCEIVING THE FAMILY: CRITIQUE ON THE AMERICAN LAW INSTITUTE’S PRINCIPLES OF THE LAW OF FAMILY DISSOLUTION 446, 461 (Robin Fretwell Wilson ed., 2006).
11. See generally MARY ANN MASON, THE CUSTODY WARS: WHY CHILDREN ARE LOSING THE LEGAL BATTLE, AND WHAT WE CAN DO ABOUT IT 2 (1999) [hereinafter MASON, CUSTODY WARS]; June Carbone, The Missing Piece of the Custody Puzzle: Creating a New Model of Parental Partnership, 39 SANTA CLARA L. REV. 1091, 1095 (1999) (noting that “[t]he battle lines” over custody “are well drawn and they are gendered ones”); Herma Hill Kay, No-Fault Divorce and Child Custody: Chilling Out the Gender Wars, 36 FAM. L.Q. 27, 34-39 (2002) (discussing the “gender wars over custody” spurred by claims of fathers’ rights).
12. See Dominus, supra note 6, at 26; Parkinson, supra note 10, at 467; William C. Smith, Dads Want Their Day: Fathers Charge Legal Bias Toward Moms Hamstrings Them as Full-Time Parents, 89 A.B.A. J. 38, 39-40 (Feb. 2003).
13. See Nancy E. Dowd, Fathers and the Supreme Court: Founding Fathers and Nurturing Fathers, 54 EMORY L.J. 1271, 1272 (2005) [hereinafter Dowd, Fathers and the Supreme Court] (noting that some strains of fathers’ rights advocacy are “strongly antifeminist, even woman- hating”) (footnotes omitted); Martha Albertson Fineman, Fatherhood, Feminism and Family Law, 32 MCGEORGE L. REV. 1031, 1043 (2001) [hereinafter Fineman, Fatherhood] (observing that “[a] substantial amount of fathers’ rights discourse characterizes mothers in negative and malicious stereotypes, arguing for monitoring, punishment, containment and control over mothers”).
14. See, e.g., Julian v. Julian, No. M1997-00236-COA-R3-CV, 2000 WL 343817, at *1 (Tenn. Ct. App. Apr. 4, 2000) (asserting constitutional rights of non-custodial mother). Reportedly, a third of the members of Fathers 4 Justice are women. See Activist: How I Stormed Lottery Show, PLYMOUTH EVENING HERALD, May 22, 2006, at 9, available at 2006 WLNR 8797790. To dramatize the point, one of the six custody-rights activists who stormed a BBC studio in May 2006 was a woman. Id.
15. See Smith, supra note 12, at 39 (noting that “[f]athers’ rights advocates have lobbied several states to adopt a legal preference for joint custody, pressed for stricter enforcement of noncustodial fathers’ visitation rights, and pushed for DNA paternity tests in child support proceedings” and that “this loosely organized movement has demonstrated its political clout in state legislatures and family courts nationwide”). Surveying recent development in child custody law in Australia, Canada, Denmark, England, France, Hong Kong, Portugal, and the United States, Helen

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rights to enforce visitation, limit their support obligations based on additional time caring for the child, and even to “disestablish” their parental status (and obligations) altogether based on DNA proof of non- paternity later in the child’s life.16
Most of the changes so far have come through legislative action, and proponents are presently pushing many new initiatives in state legislatures across the United States.17 Increasingly, however, non- custodial parents are turning their attention to the courts as well, demanding better or equal treatment as a matter of constitutional right. Michael Newdow, the California father who took his fight against the Pledge of Allegiance at his daughter’s school all the way to the U.S. Supreme Court, may be the best known of these litigants.18 But, with less fanfare, many other parents have also gone to court claiming a constitutional entitlement to play a larger and co-equal role in the
Rhoades and Susan Boyd observe that a “common thread” is “the central role played by fathers in triggering the legislative reviews, and the tendency for new policies to embrace a normative shift towards a shared parenting model.” Helen Rhoades & Susan B. Boyd, Reforming Custody Laws: A Comparative Study, 18 INT’L J.L. POL’Y & FAM. 119, 119 (2004). Australia enacted new legislation in 2006 strengthening its legal preference for “shared parental responsibility.” See Family Law Amendment (Shared Parental Responsibility) Act 2006, available at 0A56?OpenDocument&VIEWCAT=item&COUNT=999&START=1. For further discussion of “shared parenting” initiatives in Australia, Canada, and Europe, see Ian Curry-Sumner & Caroline Forder, The Dutch Family Law Chronicles: Continued Parenting Notwithstanding Divorce, in THE INTERNATIONAL SURVEY OF FAMILY LAW 261 (Andrew Bainham ed., 2006); Parkinson, supra note 10, at 456-70; and Helen Rhoades, The Rise and Rise of Shared Parenting Laws, 19 CAN. J. FAM. L. 75 (2002).
16. See, e.g., Margaret F. Brinig, Does Parental Autonomy Require Equal Custody at Divorce?, 65 LA. L. REV. 1345, 1347-48 (2005) [hereinafter Brinig, Parental Autonomy] (discussing Oregon legislation strengthening non-custodial parents’ rights concerning visitation and child support); Marygold S. Melli, The American Law Institute Principles of Family Dissolution, the Approximation Rule and Shared-Parenting, 25 N. ILL. L. REV. 347, 358-61 (2005) [hereinafter Melli, Shared-Parenting] (discussing reductions of child support based upon shared parenting); Linda Lea M. Viken, Child Support in South Dakota from Obligor Only to Shared Responsibility, an Overview, 48 S.D. L. REV. 443, 447-52 (2003) (recounting changes in South Dakota law). For critical analyses of the recent legislative and judicial trend allowing legal fathers to “disestablish” paternity, see generally Melanie B. Jacobs, When Daddy Doesn’t Want to Be Daddy Anymore: An Argument Against Paternity Fraud Claims, 16 YALE J.L. & FEMINISM 193 (2004); Jana Singer, Marriage, Biology, and Paternity: The Case for Revitalizing the Marital Presumption, 65 MD. L. REV. 246 (2006).
17. Many of the pending legislative initiatives are summarized on the website of the American Coalition for Fathers and Children, name=SharedParentingLegislation&JServSessionIdr002=ytmwy06ur1.app6a.
18. See Elk Grove Uniform Sch. Dist. v. Newdow, 542 U.S. 1 (2004). Profiles of Michael Newdow, the medical doctor and law school graduate who argued his own case pro se in the Supreme Court, appeared widely in the press. See, e.g., Dominus, supra note 6. Recently, Newdow reemerged in the headlines when he filed a lawsuit challenging the constitutionality of the use of “In God We Trust” on U.S. currency. See Atheist Targets Currency, GRAND RAPIDS PRESS, Nov. 19, 2005, at A8, available at 2005 WLNR 18779412.

upbringing of their children. In the fall of 2004, for example, coordinated class-action lawsuits were filed in forty-four states challenging the constitutionality of prevailing custody law and asserting a constitutional right to “shared parenting,” or equal time with and authority over their children.19
To date, non-custodial parents have met mostly with frustration in their resort to constitutional law.20 There have been some important successes over the years—most notably, the series of U.S. Supreme Court decisions recognizing the parenting status of some unwed fathers.21 But, in large measure, recent claimants asserting a right to equal parenting prerogatives have been stymied by a battery of impediments relating to standing, jurisdiction, or the merits.22 As discussed in greater detail below, the broad view that emerges from this litigation, in varied contexts, is that parents are not constitutionally entitled to a co-equal role in raising their children following separation or divorce. The state, in this view, retains considerable discretion to allocate parental authority and access following dissolution, including giving one parent a superior and dominant child-rearing role, without having to prove extraordinary or compelling grounds.
This Article scrutinizes that conclusion. Is it right to think that the Constitution, which is said to zealously protect the rights and authority of parents within the intact family, falls away so sharply following divorce or family break-up? And, if so, why and on what ground? In my view, the Constitution does in fact tolerate unequal roles for parents in the divided family, although not for the reasons most courts have given. The reason the Constitution tolerates unequal roles is not that the parenting interests of non-custodial parents are unprotected or insubstantial, as some courts have reasoned, or that the “best interests” of children is a “compelling” state interest which categorically overcomes the fundamental rights of parents under strict constitutional scrutiny.23 Rather, it is because constitutional protection of parental
19. See Kim Kozlowski, Divorced Michigan. Fathers Sue for Equity in Child Custody: Class- Action Lawsuit Seeks to Make Joint Custody the First Option Judges Consider, DETROIT NEWS, Oct. 31, 2004, available at _equality.htm; Sheldon Gordon, Fathers’ Day, NATIONAL, Dec. 2003 (describing similar legal claims in Canada), available at; see generally Maury D. Beaulier, Establishing a Presumption for Joint Physical Custody, TRANSITIONS, Mar. 1, 2006, at 1. For a listing and summary of the lawsuits, see the website of the Indiana Civil Rights Council,
20. See infra notes 90-137 and accompanying text.
21. See, e.g., Caban v. Mohammed, 441 U.S. 380 (1979); Stanley v. Illinois, 405 U.S. 645 (1972); see also discussion infra Part III.A.
22. See discussion infra Parts III.B-C.
23. See infra notes 95-133 and accompanying text.

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rights—of custodial and non-custodial parents alike—is always necessarily qualified by the competing interests of other family members. By this view, the qualification—or, to be frank, the weakness—of non-custodial parents’ rights does not so much reflect the unique disabilities of the non-custodial parent, as it does the relative weakness of “family privacy” rights more generally: Even within the ongoing “intact” family, the Constitution must be understood to leave room for sensitive accommodation by the state of the potentially conflicting interests of various family members. My claim, finally, is that honesty in confronting the dilemma posed by the claims of non- custodial parents should lead courts not to ratchet up dramatically the protection those parents receive, but to acknowledge candidly that the Constitution permits—and even requires—the state to balance the interests of others within the family in drawing the limits of family privacy.
This Article proceeds in three parts. Part I describes the evolution of modern custody law, providing a context for evaluating the present constitutional claims. Part II then surveys how non-custodial parents have fared in pressing their claims in court. Part III, finally, critiques the rationales courts have used to limit constitutional protection for non- custodial parents, and suggests an alternative basis for resolving these claims. It concludes, moreover, by suggesting why it would be preferable to openly concede the indeterminate nature of family-privacy protection, even if doing so would not drastically alter the bottom-line outcome of many family disputes over parenting.
The law of child custody has undergone a dramatic transformation over the past 150 years—or, more accurately, several transformations.24 American law began with a powerful presumption for custody with fathers. The entitlement of the father—“the Lord of the fireside,” in Chancellor Kent’s phrase—was nearly absolute and, as historian Michael Grossberg has noted, was “[m]oored in the medieval equation of legal rights with property ownership.”25 The father was naturally
25. MICHAEL GROSSBERG, GOVERNING THE HEARTH: LAW AND THE FAMILY IN NINETEENTH-CENTURY AMERICA 235, 240 (1985). Barbara Woodhouse has demonstrated how essentially similar property notions imbued the Supreme Court’s recognition of parental rights under the Constitution. See generally Barbara Bennett Woodhouse, “Who Owns the Child?”:

entitled to the benefit of the child’s labor, it was supposed, in exchange for the father’s investment in the child’s support.26 This rule favoring fathers gave way only if the father was shown to be wholly “unfit”—that is, if he were shown, in the words of one South Carolina judge, to have “monstrously and cruelly abused” his parental power;27 otherwise, Blackstone observed, the mother was “entitled to no power, but only to reverence and respect.”28
This rule was then turned on its head over the course of the nineteenth century. The rule favoring fathers in divorce had always coexisted with one granting mothers custody of children born outside marriage.29 So-called “illegitimate children” were essentially disregarded by English law as “the child of no one,” but by custom lived with their mothers.30 And in early America this custom took on the force of law, with early custody battles recognizing a parallel entitlement of mothers to retain custody of non-marital children.31
Further cracks began to open in the paternal preference in cases of divorce as early as the 1810s and 1820s, with judges expressing new concern for the interests of children and for the unique values of “mother love,” particularly for younger children.32 By the end of the century, it had crumbled entirely, replaced with a mirror-image preference for mothers.33 Under the Tender Years doctrine, mothers were heavily
Meyer and Pierce and the Child as Property, 33 WM. & MARY L. REV. 995 (1992).
26. See GROSSBERG, supra note 25, at 235; MASON, FROM FATHER’S PROPERTY TO
CHILDREN’S RIGHTS, supra note 24, at 61.
27. In Prather v. Prather, 4 S.C. Eq. 33 (1809), the court wrote in an action seeking separate
maintenance and custody against an abusive husband:
With respect to the children, I do not feel myself at liberty to take them out of the care and custody of the father. He is the natural guardian, invested by God and the law of the country, with reasonable power over them. Unless therefore his paternal power has been monstrously and cruelly abused, this court would be very cautious of interfering in the exercise of it.
28. See BLACKSTONE’S COMMENTARIES ON THE LAW 196 (Bernard C. Gavit ed., 1941);
GROSSBERG, supra note 25, at 236.
29. See GROSSBERG, supra note 25, at 207-08.
30. See generally id. at 197-210; HARRY D. KRAUSE, ILLEGITIMACY: LAW AND SOCIAL
POLICY 1-8 (1971).
31. See GROSSBERG, supra note 25, at 207-11.
32. See Jamil S. Zainaldin, The Emergence of a Modern American Family Law: Child
Custody, Adoption, and the Courts, 1796-1851, 73 NW. U. L. REV. 1038, 1052-59 (1979) (describing how the common law’s strict paternal entitlement began to give way to discretionary judicial consideration of child welfare in early nineteenth century cases).
33. See MASON, FROM FATHER’S PROPERTY TO CHILDREN’S RIGHTS, supra note 24, at 3-4. As Cynthia Starnes aptly notes, “[w]hat thus began as a rule of absolute paternal preference under Roman law evolved into a rule of absolute maternal preference in U.S. law, at least in cases of children of ‘tender’ years.” Cynthia Starnes, Swords in the Hands of Babes: Rethinking Custody Interviews After Troxel, 2003 WIS. L. REV. 115, 120.

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presumed to be the proper custodian of young children.34 Custody went to fathers only if the mothers were altogether “unfit” to parent.35
Explicit gender preferences in custody were finally set aside in almost all states during the 1970s. A new intolerance for sex discrimination in equal protection doctrine, along with the entry of more women into the permanent workforce, made a categorical preference for mothers untenable.36 Custody law was then recentered on a formally gender-neutral inquiry into the “best interest of the child.”37
This did not mean, of course, that gender bias no longer infected custody decisions, but it was largely pushed underground. Undoubtedly, some judges continue to favor mother custody generally, and some seem to disfavor men or women who buck traditional gender stereotypes.38 A 2004 study of family court judges in Indiana, for example, found that more half expressed support for the Tender Years doctrine in private interviews and acted consistently with that view in deciding cases.39 A study in 2005 by political scientists Elaine Martin and Barry Pyle concluded that the best predictor of voting behavior by state supreme court judges in divorce cases generally (not only custody disputes) was gender—with female judges favoring female litigants about 60% of the time and male judges favoring divorcing husbands about 55% of the
34. See HOMER H. CLARK, JR., THE LAW OF DOMESTIC RELATIONS IN THE UNITED STATES § 19.4, at 799-800 (2d ed. 1988).
35. See Ramsay Laing Klaff, The Tender Years Doctrine: A Defense, 70 CAL. L. REV. 335, 342 (1982).
36. See generally Fineman, Fatherhood, supra note 13, at 1038 (2001).
37. See id.
38. A task force study of the Virginia courts, for example, concluded that “[d]ecisions in
custody matters may reflect gender bias” and that “[m]any participants in the study, particularly men, perceive that courts are biased against men in custody matters, which may be based to a great extent on continued application of the ‘tender years’ presumption.” Gender Bias in the Courts Task Force, Gender Bias in the Courts of the Commonwealth Final Report, 7 WM. & MARY J. OF WOMEN & L. 705, 718 (2001). Studies in other states have similarly concluded that gender bias continues to influence custody decisions. See Gender and Justice in the Courts: A Report to the Supreme Court of Georgia by the Commission on Gender Bias in the Judicial System, 8 GA. ST. U. L. REV. 539, 657-58 (1992); Gender Bias Study of the Court System in Massachusetts, 24 NEW ENG. L. REV. 745, 827 n.47 (reprint 1990). But cf. Report of the Florida Supreme Court Gender Bias Study Commission 7 (Mar. 1990) (finding that “[c]ontrary to public perception, men are quite successful in obtaining residential custody of their children when they actually seek it,” but acknowledging that “[n]oncustodial fathers are disadvantaged in the allotment of visitation”), available at See also Stephen J. Bahr et al., Trends in Child Custody Awards: Has the Removal of Maternal Preference Made a Difference?, 28 FAM. L.Q. 247, 255 (1994); Solangel Maldonado, Beyond Economic Fatherhood: Encouraging Divorced Fathers To Parent, 153 U. PA. L. REV. 921, 967-74 (2005); Cynthia A. McNeely, Lagging Behind the Times: Parenthood, Custody, and Gender Bias in the Family Court, 25 FLA. ST. U. L. REV. 891, 906-18 (1998).
39. Julie E. Artis, Judging the Best Interests of the Child: Judges’ Accounts of the Tender Years Doctrine, 38 LAW & SOC’Y REV. 769, 771 (2004).

Although mothers still usually end up with custody of children—
the latest census data shows that mothers lead single-parent households by a 5-to-1 margin—some studies suggest that fathers prevail in closer to half of all contested cases decided by a judge, a fact that in part may reflect selection effects in that small subset of cases.41
Throughout these changes—shifting focus from fathers to mothers to children—custody law through the 1970s remained premised on the idea of sole custody.42 The point was always to designate a single custodial parent who would assume primary responsibility for the child. This parent lived with the child, tended to the daily joys and toils of child-rearing, and had final say in major decisions affecting the child— such as the child’s education, religious upbringing, and medical care.43
The non-custodial parent, meanwhile, was consigned to a decidedly secondary role. These parents—in most cases fathers—were expected to pay child support and exercise “visitation,” a term many resented bitterly.44 In a despairing number of cases, they did neither. Whether because of awkwardness over their new role, ongoing conflicts with the custodial parent, or other factors, a great many non-custodial fathers simply recede from their children’s lives following divorce—and this is equally true even of fathers who were significantly involved with their children before the divorce.45 Within a year of the breakup, most
40. Elaine Martin & Barry Pyle, State High Courts and Divorce: The Impact of Judicial Gender, 36 U. TOL. L. REV. 923, 936 (2005).
41. See generally Mary Ann Mason & Ann Quirk, Are Mothers Losing Custody? Read My Lips: Trends in Judicial Decision-Making in Custody Disputes—1920, 1960, 1990, and 1995, 31 FAM. L.Q. 215 (1997). But cf. Elizabeth Brandt, Cautionary Tales of Adoption: Addressing the Litigation Crisis at the Moment of Adoption, 4 WHITTIER J. CHILD & FAM. ADVOC. 187, 215 n.166 (2005) (collecting conflicting data on question). Of course, only a tiny fraction of custody arrangements are resolved by judicial decision following trial. Eleanor Maccoby and Robert Mnookin famously found in their study of California divorces that judge-decided cases represented just 1.5 percent of all divorces involving children. See ELEANOR E. MACCOBY & ROBERT H. MNOOKIN, DIVIDING THE CHILD: SOCIAL AND LEGAL DILEMMAS OF CUSTODY 137-38 (1992).
42. See Marygold S. Melli et al., Child Custody in a Changing World: A Study of Postdivorce Arrangements in Wisconsin, 1997 U. ILL. L. REV. 773, 776 [hereinafter Melli et al., Child Custody].
43. See, e.g., Rust v. Rust, 864 S.W.2d 52, 55 (Tenn. Ct. App. 1993) (holding that “in the absence of specific provisions in the custody decree, the parent receiving custody retains the sole prerogative to make the significant decisions concerning the child’s education, residence, religious training, and medical care”).
44. See, e.g., Marilyn Gardner, Yours, Mine, Then Yours Again, CHRISTIAN SCI. MONITOR, May 3, 2006, at 13 (quoting one supporter of shared parenting as stating that “[t]he words ‘custody’ and ‘visitation’ belong to prisons and hospitals” and that “[t]his may be useful language for the legal system, but not for families”).
45. See E. MAVIS HETHERINGTON & JOHN KELLY, FOR BETTER OR FOR WORSE: DIVORCE RECONSIDERED 118-21 (2002); Cynthia R. Mabry, Disappearing Acts: Encouraging Fathers To Reappear for their Children, 7 J.L. & FAM. Stud. 111, 114-18 (2005); Maldonado, supra note 38, at

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children see their fathers only a few times a year, and contact drops off sharply after that.46 Looking further out, nearly a quarter of divorced fathers report going at least five years without seeing their children.47 By any measure, this is a shocking “drop out” rate; to fathers’ rights advocates, however, it reflects being “thrown away.”48
This sense of resentment led to the next major development in child custody law: joint custody. After its adoption in California in 1979, joint custody spread rapidly, with varying levels of enthusiasm, throughout the country.49 Favored by a legal presumption in a large minority of states, it is merely tolerated in others as a permissible option.50 What exactly is meant by “joint custody” varies significantly. Typically, it implies joint legal custody—meaning shared decision-making power over significant questions relating to the child’s upbringing (schools, doctors, and so on). Far less often, it also contemplates joint physical custody—an equal or roughly equal division of residential time with the child.51
SOCIAL PROBLEM 22 (1995) (contending that “[t]oday, the principal cause of fatherlessness is paternal choice” and that “[s]ince 1960, even as paternal death continued to decline, rates of paternal abandonment skyrocketed”); DOWD, REDEFINING FATHERHOOD, supra note 4, at 23 (noting that “[f]orty percent of children in father-absent homes have not seen their fathers at all during the previous year,” and that “[o]nly one in six see his or her father at least once a week”); Frank F. Furstenberg et al., The Life Course of Children of Divorce: Marital Disruption and Parental Contact, 48 AM. SOC. REV. 656, 663-64 (1983) (finding that half of non-custodial fathers have virtually no contact with their children two years after divorce); Maldonado, supra note 36, at 946-47 (“Studies have found that nearly sixty percent of children whose parents had separated had seen their fathers only several times or less in the previous year, and almost thirty percent had not seen them at all in the previous year.”); Judith A. Seltzer, Relationships Between Fathers and Children Who Live Apart: The Father’s Role After Separation, 53 J. MARRIAGE & FAM. 79, 85 (1991).
47. See Maldonado, supra note 38, at 947; see also HETHERINGTON & KELLY, supra note 45, at 121 (in study of 1400 families of divorce, “a quarter of . . . children saw their fathers once a year or less” six years after divorce).
48. See generally, e.g., ROSS D. PARKE & ARMIN A. BROTT, THROWAWAY DADS (1999); Ronald K. Henry, Child Support at a Crossroads: When the Real World Intrudes Upon Academics and Advocates, 33 FAM. L.Q. 235, 243-44 (1999); Dennis G. Vatsis, Throwaway Dads: Making the Case for Fathers: Gender Bias Denies Dads Custody When Parents Divorce, MICH. B.J., Sept. 2001, at 54.
49. See Carbone, supra note 11, at 1110-13; Jay Folberg, Issues and Trends in the Law of Joint Custody, in JOINT CUSTODY AND SHARED PARENTING 159, 160 (Jay Folberg ed. 1984).
50. See SCHEPARD, supra note 1, at 47; see generally Linda D. Elrod & Robert G. Spector, A Review of the Year in Family Law: “Same Sex” Marriage Issue Dominates Headlines, 38 FAM. L.Q. 777, 789-95 (2005).
51. Even within this subset of cases, there can be substantial variation. See Carbone, supra note 10, at 1114 (noting that “there is no requirement that shared care be shared equally, and the term can refer to anything from a strictly equal division of responsibility to little more than what used to be called visitation”). A study of Wisconsin cases, for example, showed that custody

A more recent innovation in custody law—similar but distinct from joint custody—is the “approximation rule.”52 First proposed in a 1992 law review article by Professor Elizabeth Scott,53 the approximation rule recently has been endorsed by the American Law Institute in its Principles of the Law of Family Dissolution54 and has now been adopted into law in West Virginia.55 The rule rejects the traditional division of child-rearing roles between a “custodial” and a “non-custodial” parent— and jettisons the freighted concept of “visitation”; instead, it favors an allocation of “custodial responsibility” approximating the division of child-rearing roles the parties had prior to the court’s intervention.56 An explicit aim of this standard is to move away from the indeterminacy and potential bias of the “best interests” test, while preserving as much as possible of the routines and responsibilities both parents had crafted for themselves before their split.57
Initially, joint custody was eagerly embraced by legislators and judges as a way of validating and encouraging the involvement of both parents.58 Over time, its reception has become more mixed.59 Some have
arrangements labeled as shared physical custody ranged from equal divisions of residential time to something closer to a 70/30 split. See Melli et al., Child Custody, supra note 42, at 799.
52. See generally Melli, Shared-Parenting, supra note 16. The approximation rule is similar to joint custody in that it favors the substantial ongoing involvement of both parents, but can result in unequal allocations of responsibility in couples that engaged in traditional role division in their marriage. As Andrew Schepard points out:
Although gender-neutral on its face, the approximation presumption was “crafted by women” as an alternative to joint custody, which they perceived as the “handiwork of men.” In most cases, the approximation presumption will allocate more of the child’s time to the mother, as mothers do most of the pre-divorce work of caring for children.
SCHEPARD, supra note 1, at 168 (footnote omitted).
53. See generally Elizabeth S. Scott, Pluralism, Parental Preference, and Child Custody, 80
CAL. L. REV. 615, 617-18 (1992).
ANALYSIS AND RECOMMENDATIONS § 2.03 (Tentative Draft No. 3 Part I 1998) [hereinafter ALI PRINCIPLES].
55. See W. VA. CODE § 48-11-106 (2001).
56. See ALI PRINCIPLES, supra note 54, § 2.09; see also id. at 9 (explaining that while “[t]he
traditional ‘custody’ and ‘visitation’ terminology symbolize and help to perpetuate the adversarial, win-lose nature” of traditional custody law, “custodial responsibility” instead “expresses the ordinary expectation that both parents have meaningful responsibilities for their child at divorce”).
57. Thus, Katharine Bartlett, the reporter for the custody principles, has aptly described the ALI’s approach as “family enabling” rather than “family standardizing.” Katharine T. Bartlett, Saving the Family from the Reformers, 31 U.C. DAVIS L. REV. 809, 818 (1998); see also Katharine T. Bartlett, Child Custody in the 21st Century: How the American Law Institute Proposes to Achieve Predictability and Still Protect the Individual Child’s Best Interests, 35 WILLAMETTE L. REV. 467, 478-82 (1999); Melli, Shared-Parenting, supra note 16, at 353-54.
58. See James G. Dwyer, A Taxonomy of Children’s Existing Rights in State Decision Making About Their Relationships, 11 WM. & MARY BILL RTS. J. 845, 914-15 (2003). Katharine Bartlett and Carol Stack captured the sentiment, writing that “[u]nlike the ‘neutral’ best interests test or a primary caretaker presumption . . . rules [favoring joint custody] promote the affirmative

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criticized joint custody on the ground that it awards fathers rights without corresponding duties,60 and that it has induced some mothers to cede property or support rights in exchange for sole custody.61 And some scholars have recently detected a general retreat from joint custody, with more judges limiting it to cases where both parents consent to the idea.62
Recently, fathers’ rights groups—frustrated over the qualified acceptance of joint custody—have launched efforts in many states (and countries) to favor “shared parenting.” Several states, including Iowa, Maine, and Oregon, have already enacted legislation;63 and additional bills have been introduced in a great many other states.64
Some of these “shared parenting” measures, such as the laws adopted in Iowa and Maine, create a presumption in favor of joint legal and physical custody, but allow sole custody if exceptional circumstances show it would serve a child’s “best interests.”65 Some
assumption that both parents should, and will, take important roles in the care and nurturing of their children.” Katharine T. Bartlett & Carol B. Stack, Joint Custody, Feminism and the Dependency Dilemma, 2 BERKELEY WOMEN’S L.J. 9, 32-33 (1986).
59. See SANFORD N. KATZ, FAMILY LAW IN AMERICA 112 (2003); Carbone, supra note 11, at 1115.
60. See Karen Czapanskiy, Volunteers and Draftees: The Struggle for Parental Equality, 38 UCLA L. REV. 1415, 1415-16 (1991); see also Karen Czapanskiy, Interdependencies, Families, and Children, 39 SANTA CLARA L. REV. 957, 973-74 n.29 (1999).
61. Studying Oregon divorce cases after the state amended its law to favor shared parenting, Margaret Brinig found that “the strengthening of the joint custody presumption in fact increased joint custody awards” and reduced child support awards. See Brinig, Parental Autonomy, supra note 16, at 1367-68. She observed: “Although I cannot say for sure whether wives disadvantaged by the new statute were trading money for child custody, it is perhaps significant that wives who are represented do better.” Id. at 1368; see also Melli, Shared-Parenting, supra note 16, at 352-53 (noting that use of joint custody has been criticized “as an attempt to reduce the amount of child support by promising a commitment to share the care for the child which is either short-lived or disregarded completely”).
62. See Dwyer, supra note 58, at 911; MARTIN GUGGENHEIM, WHAT’S WRONG WITH CHILDREN’S RIGHTS 150 (2005).
63. See IOWA CODE § 598.41 (2006); ME. REV. STAT. ANN. tit. 19-A, § 1653 (2001); OR. REV. STAT. § 107.179 (2006). These laws are discussed in Brinig, Parental Autonomy, supra note 16, at 1345-49; similar measures proposed or enacted in Australia, Canada, England, France, and other countries are described in Parkinson, supra note 10, at 457-60, and Rhoades & Boyd, supra note 15, at 119-31.
64. See, e.g., Lam Vaiphei, Alabama: Bill Introduced Regarding Joint Custody of Children, U.S. FED. NEWS, Apr. 27, 2006, available at 2006 WLNR 7082185; Jim Kastama, Shared Parenting Best for Children, SEATTLE POST-INTELLIGENCER, May 3, 2006, available at (op-ed article by state representative promoting shared-parenting legislation in Washington). A shared-parenting bill in New York, see N.Y. State Assembly, Bill No. A00330 (text of bill available at, recently died in committee, see Michele Morgan Bolton, Shared Parenting Proposal Fails in Committee: Assembly Panel’s Chairman Says Law Would Have Shifted Focus From the Best Interest of the Children, ALBANY TIMES UNION, Apr. 26, 2006, at A3.
65. See IOWA CODE § 598.41 (2006) (“If the court denies the request for joint physical care, the determination shall be accompanied by specific findings of fact and conclusions of law that the

proposals, however, would go further. An initiative measure in North Dakota would recognize an entitlement to joint physical custody unless either parent were shown to be “unfit.”66 Another in Michigan would amend the state constitution to create an entitlement to “equal parenting”—meaning “as close to 50 percent” of a child’s residential time “as possible”—unless the arrangement would put the child in “direct and imminent danger.”67
The more extreme of these are unlikely to succeed, but support for “shared parenting” is clearly significant, as evidenced by the recent enactments in some states. Taken together with the ALI’s movement toward the “approximation” approach toward allocating custodial responsibility, it is clear that the role of non-custodial parents—indeed, the very idea of “non-custodial” parents—is being fundamentally reconsidered.68
In addition to pressing their case in the legislatures, fathers—and some non-custodial mothers—are also demanding rights in court. In a substantial flurry of recent litigation, they have tried to bypass the need for lobbying and legislation by asserting a constitutional entitlement to “shared parenting” and a more substantial role in raising their children.
The gist of these claims is straightforward: Going back to the 1920s in cases like Meyer v. Nebraska69 and Pierce v. Society of Sisters,70 the Supreme Court has held that parents have a fundamental constitutional
awarding of joint physical care is not in the best interest of the child.”); ME. REV. STAT. ANN. tit. 19-A, § 1653 (2001) (“If either or both parents request an award of shared primary residential care and the court does not award shared primary residential care of the child, the court shall state in its decision the reasons why shared primary residential care is not in the best interest of the child.”); see also Stephanie N. Barnes, Comment, Strengthening the Father-Child Relationship Through a Joint Custody Presumption, 35 WILLAMETTE L. REV. 601 (1999) (advocating adoption of similar legislation in Oregon).
66. See Lisa Gibson, North Dakota Secretary of State Approves Child Custody Initiative, GRAND FORKS HERALD, Mar. 3, 2006; Lisa Gibson, Child Custody: Whose Best Interest? Committee Opposes New Custody Initiatives, GRAND FORKS HERALD, June 1, 2006.
67. See Non-custodial Parent and Grandparent Organization, Proposed Amendment to the State of Michigan Constitution Promoting the Best Interests of the Child to Have Equal Access to Both Parents, available at
68. See, e.g., Melli, Shared-Parenting, supra note 16, at 349-50, 362 (noting that shared parenting already “may be the fastest growing post-dissolution arrangement in the United States,” and that adoption of the ALI approximation standard “would probably result in an increase in shared parenting . . . .”); Parkinson, supra note 10, at 456-61. Parkinson surveys the “new legislative emphasis on shared parenting [in the United States and other Western nations] and the equally profound changes in patterns of parenting after separation . . . .” Id. at 461.
69. 262 U.S. 390 (1923).
70. Pierce v. Soc’y of the Sisters of Holy Names of Jesus & Mary, 268 U.S. 510 (1925).

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right to raise their children without state interference.71 Custody orders, public school policies, or other state action that sharply limit the child- rearing role of either parent, the argument goes, substantially burden that right, triggering strict judicial scrutiny. And, under strict scrutiny, the state must show some “compelling interest”—such as imminent harm to the child—to justify its intervention. Incantation of more amorphous interests, including the “best interests” of children, is insufficient.72
The argument is doctrinally plausible, and has been endorsed by some academic commentators.73 But it has found little success in the courts. Indeed, a survey of court decisions across a range of topics shows considerable reluctance to recognize constitutional rights on the part of non-custodial parents. In part, the poor success rate may reflect, as Nancy Dowd has suggested, entrenched stereotypes that denigrate and discount the parenting interests of fathers.74 In addition, however, I believe that the courts’ reluctance to credit seriously the constitutional rights of non-custodial parents ultimately says something of broader significance about constitutional rights of family privacy generally,
71. See Troxel v. Granville, 530 U.S. 57, 65 (2000) (observing that “[t]he liberty interest at issue in this case—the interest of parents in the care, custody, and control of their children—is perhaps the oldest of the fundamental liberty interests recognized by this Court”). For discussions of the Constitution’s protection of parental rights, see generally Emily Buss, Essay, “Parental” Rights, 88 VA. L. REV. 635 (2002) [hereinafter Buss, “Parental” Rights]; Richard W. Garnett, Taking Pierce Seriously: The Family, Religious Education, and Harm to Children, 76 NOTRE DAME L. REV. 109 (2000); Stephen G. Gilles, On Educating Children: A Parentalist Manifesto, 63 U. CHI. L. REV. 937 (1996); GUGGENHEIM, supra note 62, at 17-49; Francis Barry McCarthy, The Confused Constitutional Status and Meaning of Parental Rights, 22 GA. L. REV. 975 (1988).
72. See Don Fischer, Parenting as a Protected Constitutional Right, (Mar. 8, 2001),; see generally John C. Duncan, Jr., The Ultimate Best Interest of the Child Enures from Parental Reinforcement: The Journey to Family Integrity, 83 NEB. L. REV. 1240 (2005) (discussing constitutional protection of parental rights and proposing legislation to mandate strict scrutiny of any state action impairing parental rights).
73. See Donald C. Hubin, Parental Rights and Due Process, 1 J. L. & FAM. STUD. 123, 134 (1999); Holly L. Robinson, Joint Custody: Constitutional Imperatives, 54 U. CIN. L. REV. 27 (1985); James W. Bozzomo, Note, Joint Legal Custody: A Parent’s Constitutional Right in a Reorganized Family, 31 HOFSTRA L. REV. 547 (2002); Ellen Canacakos, Note, Joint Custody as a Fundamental Right, 23 ARIZ. L. REV. 785 (1981).
74. See Dowd, Fathers and the Supreme Court, supra note 13, at 1271; see also Gloria Chan, Comment, Reconceptualizing Fatherhood: The Stakes Involved in Newdow, 28 HARV. J.L. & GENDER 467, 468 (2005) (contending that Newdow “reflects a failure to acknowledge that fathers may indeed have important emotional connections with their children and reinforces the general sense that nonresident fathers are ‘important for their money but for little else’”); Linda Kelly, The Alienation of Fathers, 6 MICH. J. RACE & L. 181, 183 (2000) (contending that “[t]he reduction of a father’s parenting role to a financial obligation as represented by [Miller v. Albright, 523 U.S. 420 (1998),] affirms the marginalization of unwed fathers otherwise endorsed by the Court in the immigration context.”). Certainly, as Richard Storrow has pointed out, this would not be the only instance in which stereotypes have shaped the boundaries of the Court’s protection of family privacy. See Richard F. Storrow, The Policy of Family Privacy: Uncovering the Bias in Favor of Nuclear Families in American Constitutional Law and Policy Reform, 66 MO. L. REV. 527 (2001).

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A. Unwed Fathers
The area where the rights of fathers have been most directly recognized is the so-called “unwed father” cases. Before the 1970s, unmarried men had scant legal protection as parents.75 They were highly unlikely to win custody in a battle with the mother; if she chose to surrender the child for adoption by others, the father had no right to object;76 and if she died, the state could assume custody of her children as if they were parentless.77
The Supreme Court significantly changed the status of unwed fathers, however, in a series of decisions in the 1970s and 1980s. In 1972, in Stanley v. Illinois,78 the Court held that an unmarried father who had lived with his three children and their mother was constitutionally entitled to be recognized as a “parent” in deciding the children’s placement upon her death.79 At the time, Illinois law did not regard the fathers of “illegitimate children” as legal parents.80 Consequently, “the children of unwed fathers [became] wards of the State upon the death of the mother.”81 Peter Stanley, who had lived together with Joan Stanley off and on for eighteen years without marrying, thus lost custody of his three children when she died. The Supreme Court, however, held that the Due Process Clause did not permit Illinois’ categorical disregard of unmarried fathers. At least some unwed fathers, the Court noted, “are wholly suited to have custody of their children,”82 and Peter Stanley, like “all Illinois parents[,] [was] constitutionally entitled to a hearing on . . . [his] fitness” before his children could be removed from his care.83 Seven years later, in Caban v. Mohammed,84 the Court held that New York could not permit the adoption of an unmarried father’s
75. See David D. Meyer, Family Ties: Solving the Constitutional Dilemma of the Faultless Father, 41 ARIZ. L. REV. 753, 758 (1999) [hereinafter Meyer, Family Ties].
76. See Caban v. Mohammed, 441 U.S. 380, 390 n.8 (1979).
77. See Stanley v. Illinois, 405 U.S. 645 (1972).
78. See id.
79. Id. at 658.
80. Id. at 649-50. Under then-governing Illinois law, “‘[p]arents . . . means the father and
mother of a legitimate child, or the survivor of them, or the natural mother of an illegitimate child’ . . . but the term does not include unwed fathers.” Id. at 650 (quoting Ill. Rev. Stat., c.37, § 701-14 (1972)).
81. Id. at 646.
82. Id. at 654.
83. Id. at 658.
84. 441 U.S. 380 (1979).

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children by another man without first obtaining his consent or proving his unfitness, as was required for married parents.85
These were important victories in giving constitutional protection to the parenting interests of non-custodial parents. And, yet, the victories were also importantly qualified. First, only some unwed fathers qualified for constitutional protection.86 In other cases, unwed fathers who had never had custody of their children, and had never “come forward to participate in the rearing” of their children, were deemed to fall outside the scope of the Constitution’s concern.87 The only fathers who prevailed had at least formerly been custodial parents. Peter Stanley had always lived with his children; and Abdiel Caban had lived with his children for four years before their mother left him and married another man.88 Indeed, partly for this reason, Katharine Baker contends that “the most important factor in determining whether a genetic father will be entitled to constitutional protection of his parental rights is his relationship with the mother.”89 Unwed fathers prevail, she notes, where the evidence suggests an implicit agreement with the child’s mother to share parental rights.90
And, second, the only constitutional entitlement recognized in these cases was to preserve the status quo of parental status: Stanley got to remain with his children, as before; Caban got to veto the stepfather’s adoption and thereby preserve his status as a non-custodial parent. The unwed father cases do not, however, expressly recognize an entitlement to any particular substantive parenting role.
85. See id. at 394. The Court had previously held that married or divorced fathers are constitutionally entitled to object to the adoption of their children. See Armstrong v. Manzo, 380 U.S. 545 (1965).
86. See DOWD, REDEFINING FATHERHOOD, supra note 4, at 98-105; Dowd, Fathers and the Supreme Court, supra note 13, at 1297-1307; Meyer, Family Ties, supra note 75, at 760-66; Laura Oren, The Paradox of Unmarried Fathers and the Constitution: Biology ‘Plus’ Defines Relationships; Biology Alone Safeguards the Public Fisc, 11 WM. & MARY J. WOMEN & L. 47, 50- 70 (2004).
87. Lehr v. Robertson, 463 U.S. 248, 267-68 (1983) (quoting Caban, 441 U.S. at 392); see also Quilloin v. Walcott, 434 U.S. 246, 252-53 (1978).
88. See Stanley, 405 U.S. at 650 n.4; Caban, 441 U.S. at 382.
89. Katharine K. Baker, Bargaining or Biology?: The History and Future of Paternity Law
and Parental Status, 14 CORNELL J. L. & PUB. POL’Y 1, 34 (2004); see also Dowd, Fathers and the Supreme Court, supra note 13, at 1306-07 (stating that “the Court’s cases arguably require that unwed fathers cannot trigger constitutional protection unless they share a household for a considerable period of time with the mother and child, either because the Court is more comfortable with a marital-type relationship between the parents, or requires the opportunity for presumed conduct of parental nurture of the children”).
90. See Baker, supra note 89, at 34-35.

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Where litigants have sought to establish more specific custodial prerogatives as a matter of constitutional right, they have made little headway. Most of the recent class-action lawsuits claiming a right to shared parenting have been poorly crafted and have failed on jurisdictional, immunity, or abstention grounds. In federal court, claimants who challenged the constitutionality of their state-court custody orders have foundered on the Rooker-Feldman doctrine, which bars “lower federal courts . . . from exercising appellate jurisdiction over final state-court judgments.”91 Class actions seeking damages from state governments for alleged deprivations of parental rights have failed on grounds of the states’ immunity from suit under the Eleventh Amendment.92 About the most substantial victory that can be claimed from this round of class actions is dictum in a Sixth Circuit opinion, otherwise affirming dismissal of the lawsuit, allowing that the complaint raised “very interesting constitutional questions.”93
Yet, when lawsuits have been properly framed and courts have managed to reach the merits of those questions, non-custodial parents still lose. In Arnold v. Arnold,94 for example, a father appealed a custody order awarding him only 102 days per year with his children, rather than a perfectly equal split of 182.5 days per year. He argued that the state’s discretionary custody “statutes violate due process because they deprive[d] him a fundamental liberty interest in equally participating in the raising of his children.”95 The Wisconsin Court of Appeals, however—like other courts hearing similar claims—ruled that the Constitution’s protection of parental rights was simply inapplicable in a
91. Lance v. Dennis, 126 S. Ct. 1198, 1201 (2006); see, e.g., Puletti v. Patel, No. 05 CV 2293(SJ), 2006 WL 2010809, at *5 (E.D.N.Y. July 5, 2006) (dismissing shared-parenting action on Rooker-Feldman grounds); Chapman v. Oklahoma, No. 04-CV-0722-CVE-PJC, 2006 WL 288102, at *2-3 (N.D. Okla. Feb. 6, 2006) (same); see also Hoblock v. Albany County Bd. of Elec., 422 F.3d 77, 87 (2d Cir. 2005) (stating in dictum that a parent’s constitutional challenge to a state court’s deprivation of parental rights would be barred by Rooker-Feldman). The Rooker-Feldman doctrine, named for the Supreme Court’s decisions in Rooker v. Fid. Trust Co., 263 U.S. 413, 416 (1923), and District of Columbia Court of Appeals v. Feldman, 460 U.S. 462, 462 (1983), is founded on the rationale that only the U.S. Supreme Court has jurisdiction to review the judgments of state courts. See Lance, 126 S. Ct. at 1200-01.
92. See, e.g., Ammann v. Connecticut, No. 3:04CV1647, 2005 WL 465401, at *1 & n.2 (D. Conn. Feb. 10, 2005) (dismissing complaint on Eleventh Amendment grounds and collecting citations to dismissals of other, similar actions in other courts); Puletti, 2006 WL 2010809, at *7-8 (holding that claim for damages for denial of custody rights is barred by Eleventh Amendment).
93. See Galluzzo v. Champaign Cty. Ct. of Comm. Pls., 168 F. App’x. 21, 23 (6th Cir. 2006).
94. 679 N.W.2d 296 (Wis. Ct. App. 2004), rev. denied, 679 N.W.2d 547 (Wis. 2004), cert.
denied, 543 U.S. 873 (2004).
95. Id. at 298.

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custody dispute between two “natural parents.”
“[W]hile parents do have a natural right to care and custody of their
children,” the Arnold court concluded, “this does not mean that parents have a ‘fundamental right’ to ‘equal placement periods’ after divorce.”96 The reason, Arnold and other courts have suggested, is that a mediating role by the state is necessary to resolve what otherwise would be a deadlock of conflicting rights.97 “Custody and visitation disputes between two fit parents,” a Virginia appellate court explained in 2003, “involve one parent’s fundamental right pitted against the other parent’s fundamental right. The discretion afforded trial courts under the best- interests test…reflects a finely balanced judicial response to this parental deadlock.”98 The idea, apparently, is that a discretionary “best interests” assignment of custody is permissible in these cases because the fundamental rights of the two parents effectively cancel each other out, removing any constitutional impediment to state intervention.99
In a recent article, Margaret Brinig takes a different tack, suggesting (in company with some other courts100) that the “best interests” test is constitutional in custody cases because it qualifies as a “compelling” state interest.101 She points out that a long line of Supreme Court decisions emphasize state-court primacy in domestic relations cases and demonstrate a strong inclination to leave state courts with
96. Id. at 299 (footnote omitted); accord Lofthus v. Lofthus, 678 N.W.2d 393, 397-98 (Wis. Ct. App. 2004); Lawson v. Reynolds, No. S-10053, 2002 WL 1486484, at *9-10 (Alaska July 10, 2002).
97. Arnold, 679 N.W.2d at 299 (writing that the father-claimant had “not demonstrated why, following a divorce between parents, the state does not have the right to arbitrate any dispute those parents may have over what happens to their children”).
98. Griffin v. Griffin, 581 S.E.2d 899, 902 (Va. Ct. App. 2003).
99. For other cases holding that the offsetting rights of parents displace strict-scrutiny protection of fundamental rights and allows use of a “best interests” standard to resolve custody disputes, see McDermott v. Dougherty, 869 A.2d 751, 808-09 (Md. 2005); Jacobs v. Jacobs, 507 A.2d 596, 599 (Me. 1986); In re R.A., 891 A.2d 564, 576 (N.H. 2005); Winfield v. Winfield, No. 2002-L-010, 2003 WL 22952773, at *4 (Ohio Ct. App. Dec. 12, 2003); Julian v. Julian, No. M1997- 00236-COA-R3-CV, 2000 WL 343817, at *4 (Tenn. Ct. App. Apr. 4, 2000). Cf. Bancroft v. Bancroft, 578 A.2d 114, 117-18 (Vt. 1990) (rejecting father’s claim that use of “best interests” standard violated his fundamental parental rights and observing that “[s]ince both Robert and Linda are the natural parents of the children, there is no presumption that the best interests of the children are served by granting custody to either one of them”).
100. See Eichinger v. Eichinger, 31 Fam. L. Rep. (BNA) 1191 (Ind. Cir. Ct. 2004) (describing court’s holding that “statute’s ‘best interest of child’ standard constitutes compelling state interest that justifies resultant interference with rights of biological parents, and thus does not violate substantive due process”), aff’d, 808 N.E.2d 1241 (Ind. Ct. App.), cert. denied, 543 U.S. 1150 (2005); Julian, 2000 WL 343817, at *4 (stating that “as important as a parent’s rights and interests are, they are secondary to the rights and interests of their children”).
101. See Brinig, Parental Autonomy, supra note 16, at 1358.

considerable discretion in deciding custody.102 And she points to Supreme Court opinions, as in Palmore v. Sidoti,103 recognizing that “[t]he State, of course, has a duty of the highest order to protect the interests of minor children, particularly those of tender years.”104 “Thus,” Professor Brinig concludes, “as a matter of constitutional law, the best interests of the child, protected by the state, should prevail over the constitutional interests of either of the competing parents.”105 Indeed, in 1993 the Supreme Court readily assumed that “‘[t]he best interests of the child,’ a venerable phrase familiar from divorce proceedings, is a proper and feasible criterion for making the decision as to which of two parents will be accorded custody.”106
C. Child-Rearing Authority
Even if the Constitution does not entitle each parent to residential custody of a child, it might at least be thought to ensure each parent a major role in raising the child. Yet, non-custodial parents who have limited themselves to seeking a substantial role in rearing their children as non-custodial parents have fared little better. Some judges have recognized, at least in passing, a fundamental right of non-custodial parents to some visitation with their children—so that a court’s complete denial of access would trigger constitutional scrutiny as tantamount to a termination of parental rights.107 But if non-custodial parents aspire to more than a bare minimum of access to a child—to assert, for instance, their views about how their children should be raised or educated—the courts are notably less receptive.
102. See id. at 1351-55. Professor Brinig notes, for example, the Supreme Court’s articulation of a “domestic relations exception” to federal diversity jurisdiction in Ankenbrandt v. Richards, 504 U.S. 689 (1992). See Brinig, Parental Autonomy, supra note 16, at 1351.
103. 466 U.S. 429 (1984).
104. Id. at 433; see Brinig, Parental Autonomy, supra note 16, at 1357-58.
105. Brinig, Parental Autonomy, supra note 16, at 1358.
106. Reno v. Flores, 507 U.S. 292, 303-04 (1993). Reno v. Flores did not, however, present a
constitutional challenge to the “best interests” standard. To the contrary, the constitutional claim— rejected by the Court—was that a “best interests” inquiry was constitutionally required in placing juvenile aliens in government custody.
107. See, e.g., Bueno v. Todd, No. W2005-02164-COA-R3-CV, 2006 WL 2106006, at *5 (Tenn. Ct. App. July 31, 2006) (stating that “courts have recognized that non-custodial parents have a fundamental right to visit their children”); In re ANO, 136 P.3d 797, 803 (Wyo. 2006) (stating that “the right to associate with one’s child is a fundamental right”); Wigginton v. Wigginton, 692 N.W.2d 108, 114 (N.D. 2005) (Sandstrom, J., concurring); cf. In re A.G., 900 A.2d 677, 682-83 (D.C. 2006) (sustaining custody order that limited non-custodial father to visitation at the “sole discretion” of the child’s guardians and reasoning that “[w]hether appellant has a constitutional right to visit his daughter is irrelevant to this case, because the trial court did not prohibit him from doing so”; the court left open the possibility of reconsidering the constitutional claim if the guardians denied all visitation).

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The most prominent example is Elk Grove Unified School District v. Newdow,108 the recent Pledge of Allegiance case. In Newdow, a father claimed that the recitation of the Pledge at his daughter’s public school violated both the First Amendment and his fundamental rights as a parent to determine her religious upbringing.109 The Court held that he lacked standing to bring the claims, and it grounded that conclusion in Newdow’s limited rights under state law as a non-custodial parent.110 Although Newdow was nominally granted “joint legal custody,” the custody decree specified that the girl’s mother—with whom she lived— would have final say over her upbringing, making Newdow a de facto non-custodial parent.111
“Newdow’s parental status,” Justice Stevens wrote, “is defined by California’s domestic relations law.”112 The Court accepted that “state law vests in Newdow a cognizable right to influence his daughter’s religious upbringing” and that “the state cases create a zone of private authority within which each parent, whether custodial or non-custodial, remains free to impart to the child his or her religious perspective.”113 But California law did not grant Newdow, as a non-custodial parent, “a right to dictate to others what they may and may not say to his child respecting religion.”114 Because state law assigned that authority to the girl’s mother as the custodial parent, Newdow could not object to state- sponsored religious indoctrination of his daughter on the ground that it violated his own constitutional rights as a parent.
By tying the scope of enforceable parental authority under the Constitution to the generosity of a particular custody order, the Court in Newdow seemed not to allow for constitutional parenting rights beyond those provided under state law: If state law declined to confer a particular parenting prerogative, the non-custodial parent would have no basis to object under the Constitution.115
The implications of Newdow for the constitutional rights of non- custodial parents are uncertain. It was possible, after all, that the Court’s
108. 542 U.S. 1 (2004).
109. Id. at 8-10.
110. Id. at 16-17.
111. See id. at 14 & n.6.
112. Id. at 16.
113. Id.
114. Id. at 17.
115. For a critical analysis of this point, see David D. Meyer, Partners, Care Givers, and the
Constitutional Substance of Parenthood, in RECONCEIVING THE FAMILY: CRITIQUE ON THE AMERICAN LAW INSTITUTE’S PRINCIPLES OF THE LAW OF FAMILY DISSOLUTION 47, 56-59 (Robin Fretwell Wilson ed., 2006) [hereinafter Meyer, Partners]. Cf. Dowd, Fathers and the Supreme Court, supra note 13, at 1279 (criticizing Newdow for “mak[ing] constitutional standing rest on the designation of whether a parent is either the sole, primary, or joint custodial parent”).

narrow view of standing was merely a convenient device to avoid the merits of a highly politicized case—that it was, in Justice Owen Roberts’ famous phrase from Smith v. Allwright,116 like “a restricted railroad ticket, good for this day and train only.”117 As Douglas Laycock has written, “Newdow . . . may have been politically impossible to affirm and legally impossible to reverse.”118 Standing provided a convenient exit.119
But some lower courts have taken Newdow at its word and cabined the constitutional rights of non-custodial parents more broadly, in contexts far removed from the controversy over the pledge. In Brittain v. Hansen,120 for example, the Ninth Circuit rejected a non-custodial mother’s claim that police violated her fundamental parenting rights by wrongfully interfering with her visitation with her son. The court held, as a matter of first impression in the Circuit, that non-custodial parents retain a “liberty interest in the companionship, care, custody, and management of their children,” but emphasized that their constitutional rights are necessarily circumscribed by underlying custody orders and are “unambiguously lesser in magnitude than that of a parent with full legal custody.”121 Any broader view of a non-custodial parent’s constitutional parenting rights, the court reasoned, “would fail to give proper effect to the state court’s [custody] judgment.”122 A non-custodial parent might, consistent with the underlying custody order, retain a constitutional liberty interest in court-ordered visitation, but it is limited: Brittain held that an alleged police conspiracy to deprive a parent of a visitation period “did not rise to the level of a constitutional violation.”123
116. 321 U.S. 649 (1944).
117. Id. at 669 (Roberts, J., dissenting); see also Elk Grove Unified Sch. Dist. v. Newdow, 542
U.S. 1, 25 (2003) (Rehnquist, C.J., concurring in the judgment).
118. Douglas Laycock, Theology Scholarships, the Pledge of Allegiance, and Religious Liberty: Avoiding the Extremes But Missing the Liberty, 118 HARV. L. REV. 155, 224 (2004).
119. See Newdow, 542 U.S. at 25 (Rehnquist, C.J., concurring) (describing the Court’s standing concerns as “ad hoc improvisations” for avoiding the merits of Newdow’s claim); Dowd, Fathers and the Supreme Court, supra note 13, at 1277 (contending that “[t]he controversial nature of the case suggests the Court was eager to avoid deciding the substantive issue by any means possible”).
120. 451 F.3d 982 (9th Cir. 2006).
121. Id. at 992.
122. Id.; see also id. at 989, 991 (citing Newdow).
123. Id. at 994; see also Zakrzewski v. Fox, 87 F.3d 1011, 1014 (8th Cir. 1996) (concluding
that state interference with a non-custodial parent’s visitation rights does not implicate fundamental constitutional parenting rights because the parent’s “liberty interest in the care, custody, and management of his son has been substantially reduced by the terms of the divorce decree and Nebraska law”); Wise v. Bravo, 666 F.2d 1328, 1331-33 (10th Cir. 1981) (finding that temporary state interference with non-custodial parent’s visitation with child implicated no federal

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Crowley v. McKinney,124 decided by the Seventh Circuit in 2005, provides another example. Daniel Crowley, a non-custodial parent, brought suit against the principal of his son’s public elementary school in the Chicago suburbs, contending that the school had violated his constitutional rights as a parent by excluding him from all participation in his children’s education.125 Crowley, who was angry over the school’s failure to protect his son from ongoing bullying and assaults, had been a vocal critic of school officials. In time, the school had barred Crowley from visiting campus and denied him access to all information about his son’s schooling.126
The court, in an opinion by Judge Richard Posner, found no constitutional violation. The court acknowledged, of course, that Meyer and Pierce recognize a fundamental parental right to “a degree of parental control over children’s education.”127 But the court went on to find those cases “remote” from Crowley’s claim of injury for two reasons: First, they involved “a greater intrusion on parental control,”128 namely, the complete denial of a private education, rather than mere impediments to a parent’s “micromanaging his children’s education.”129 And, second, “they concern the rights of parents acting together rather than the rights retained by a divorced parent whose ex-spouse has sole custody.”130
If the custodial parent actively opposed Crowley’s asserted interest in his son’s schooling, Judge Posner wrote, then he would lack standing under Newdow.131 Even if the mother were indifferent, so as to permit standing, Crowley failed on the merits. Judge Posner allowed that “Newdow should not be overread to extinguish the constitutional rights of non-custodial parents.”132 Nevertheless, Crowley’s status as a non- custodial parent sufficiently weakened his parental interest to take his
constitutional right of parent); Luber v. Ross, No. 1:03CV0493 (GLS/RFT), 2006 WL 37466, at *4 & n.9 (N.D.N.Y. Jan. 5, 2006) (rejecting any suggestion that a child abuse investigation, resulting in loss of custody and visitation rights, violated father’s constitutional rights, reasoning that “[a]s a non-custodial parent Luber does not have a fundamental liberty interest in his visitation rights under these circumstances”). For a thoughtful examination of parents’ constitutional claims to pre- deprivation process when police remove children from parents suspected of abusing them, see Mark R. Brown, Rescuing Children from Abusive Parents: The Constitutional Value of Pre-Deprivation Process, 65 OHIO ST. L.J. 913 (2004).
124. 400 F.3d 965 (7th Cir. 2005).
125. Id. at 967-68.
126. Id.
127. Id. at 968.
128. Id.
129. Id. at 971.
130. Id. at 969.
131. See id. at 970.
132. Id.

claim outside the scope of fundamental constitutional protection.133 After noting the practical difficulties that school districts might face if confronted with competing claims of parental authority in a divided family, Judge Posner concluded:
[I]n the divorce decree Mr. Crowley surrendered the only federal constitutional right vis-à-vis the education of one’s children that the cases as yet recognize, and that is the right to choose the school and if it is a private school to have a choice among different types of school with different curricula, educational philosophies, and sponsorship (e.g., secular versus sectarian).134
Dissenting, Judge Diane Wood objected that “the majority implies that a non-custodial parent’s fundamental rights are not entitled to the same degree of protection as those of a custodial parent,” and that “[n]othing in the Constitution . . . supports such a proposition.”135 She worried that the court’s inability to “see[] . . . [any] federal constitutional dimension in the deprivations that the school district has imposed upon Daniel Crowley”136 threatened to spell “disaster for an enormous number of children in this country whose parents have become divorced.”137
Most courts, however, do not share Judge Wood’s view. Either through standing, narrowing the boundaries of protected parental liberty, or generous assessments of the state’s “compelling” interest in child welfare, judges find ways to defeat the constitutional claims of non- custodial parents.138
The dominant rationales given by courts for limiting the rights of non-custodial parents strike me as unconvincing. The view that, at least where there is sole custody, constitutional protection for parental authority should be concentrated entirely in the custodial parent seems to proceed from one of two possible sources—one theoretical and one more pragmatic.
The theoretical justifications have to do with competing
133. See id. at 970-71.
134. Id. at 971. The court added: “So we greatly doubt that a non-custodial divorced parent has
a federal constitutional right to participate in his children’s education at the level of detail claimed by the plaintiff.” Id.
135. Id. at 975 (Wood, J., dissenting in part, concurring in part).
136. Id. at 973 (Wood, J., dissenting in part, concurring in part).
137. Id. at 974 (Wood, J., dissenting in part, concurring in part).
138. See Ralph D. Mawdsley, Noncustodial Parents’ Right to Direct the Education of Their
Children, 199 EDUC. L. REP. 545, 558 (2005) (concluding, after Crowley, that “the extent to which the liberty clause right to direct a child’s education applies to a noncustodial parent is not clear”).

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conceptions of the underlying constitutional right. In one view, privacy protection might be tied to the family as an entity.139 As Judge Posner noted, Meyer and Pierce—as well as Griswold v. Connecticut,140 Loving v. Virginia,141 and similar cases vindicating rights of “family privacy”— each proceeded on the assumption that all family members stood together in opposing the state’s intervention.142 Perhaps the non- custodial parent, as the “odd man out” of the reformulated family unit, simply moves outside the circle of privacy protection.
Yet, a view of “family privacy” limited exclusively to the family entity cannot be squared with much of the Supreme Court’s jurisprudence, particularly since Eisenstadt v. Baird143 recharacterized privacy as “the right of the individual, married or single, to be free from unwarranted governmental intrusion”144 into profoundly personal decisions.145
Another possible justification for denying rights to non-custodial parents—similar but distinct from the focus on the family as an entity— might be traced to a view that anchors parental rights in an assessment of their utility to children. Emily Buss and Elizabeth Scott, for instance, each have advanced compelling child-centered conceptions of parental rights that justify strong protection of parental prerogative on the ground that parental autonomy serves child welfare by encouraging greater parental investment in childrearing.146
In a somewhat different vein, scholars such as Anne Dailey and Linda McClain have emphasized the role of parental autonomy in fostering the capabilities of children as future democratic participants.147 As Justice Rehnquist once wrote:
139. See Martha Albertson Fineman, What Place for Family Privacy?, 67 GEO. WASH. L. REV. 1207, 1211-12 (1999) [hereinafter Fineman, Family Privacy].
140. 381 U.S. 479 (1965).
141. 388 U.S. 1 (1967).
142. See Crowley, 400 F.3d at 968-69.
143. 405 U.S. 438 (1972).
144. Id. at 453.
145. See generally Janet L. Dolgin, The Family in Transition: From Griswold to Eisenstadt
and Beyond, 82 GEO. L.J. 1519 (1994); Anne C. Dailey, Constitutional Privacy and the Just Family, 67 TUL. L. REV. 955, 976-77 (1993) [hereinafter Dailey, Constitutional Privacy]; Fineman, Family Privacy, supra note 139, at 1212-13.
146. See Buss, “Parental” Rights, supra note 71, at 636, 647-50; Elizabeth S. Scott, Parental Autonomy and Children’s Welfare, 11 WM. & MARY BILL OF RTS. J. 1071, 1072-73 (2003); Elizabeth S. Scott & Robert E. Scott, Parents as Fiduciaries, 81 VA. L. REV. 2401, 2414-18 (1995).
147. See LINDA C. MCCLAIN, THE PLACE OF FAMILIES: FOSTERING CAPACITY, EQUALITY, AND RESPONSIBILITY 42-43, 66-71 (2006); Anne C. Dailey, Developing Citizens, 91 IOWA L. REV. 431 (2006); Dailey, Constitutional Privacy, supra note 145, at 958-60.

Few could doubt that the most valuable resource of a self-governing society is its population of children who will one day become adults and themselves assume the responsibility of self-governance. “A democratic society rests, for its continuance, upon the healthy, well- rounded growth of young people into full maturity as citizens, with all that implies.”148
Drawing on these instrumental theories of parents’ rights, it might be argued that recognition of fundamental child-rearing rights for non- custodial parents is unwarranted. If extending privacy protection to non- custodial parents would erode the prerogative of custodial parents, that might undermine the child-welfare benefits of parental autonomy.
An initial difficulty with such a contention is that it seems to presuppose that the non-custodial parent’s potential investments in childrearing are dispensable—that the enhanced investments of the custodial parent induced through broader autonomy will benefit the child more than is lost through the foregone investments of the excluded parent. After all, if autonomy is instrumental in inducing selfless parental investment, the denial of autonomy to non-custodial parents should be expected to diminish their contributions. At least where parents are cooperative, children in fact appear to benefit developmentally from the substantial involvement of both parents.149
More broadly, an exclusively child-centered conception of parental rights may give insufficient acknowledgment to the weighty interests of parents themselves. Other family privacy rights, including the right to marry and form a family, have been justified by an assessment of the individual claimant’s profound stakes in a decision and by a social consensus that the right at issue warrants protection against state control.150 Even if we agree that the stakes for the child are relatively weightier in the parent-child relation, it is impossible to deny that the
148. Santosky v. Kramer, 455 U.S. 745, 790 (1982) (Rehnquist, J., dissenting) (quoting Prince v. Massachusetts, 321 U.S. 158, 168 (1944)).
149. See SCHEPARD, supra note 1, at 31-35; David L. Chambers, Fathers, the Welfare System, and the Virtues and Perils of Child-Support Enforcement, 81 VA. L. REV. 2575, 2601 (1995) (“Children of divorce are reported to fare best when they have interactions with both parents, and the parents’ relationship is cooperative.”); Maldonado, supra note 36, at 961 (discussing social science evidence showing that “when parents are able to cooperate in child rearing after a divorce and when fathers are able to maintain an active and supportive role, children will be better off in the long run”); Andrew Schepard, Taking Children Seriously: Promoting Cooperative Custody After Divorce, 64 TEX. L. REV. 687, 705 (1985) (reviewing empirical evidence showing that “[r]egular contact with both parents not only provides emotional comfort for the child whose parents divorce but also increases the quality of parenting the child receives as a result of it”).
150. See generally Planned Parenthood v. Casey, 505 U.S. 833 (1992); Zablocki v. Redhail, 434 U.S. 374 (1978); Roe v. Wade, 410 U.S. 113 (1973); Eisenstadt v. Baird, 405 U.S. 438 (1972); Loving v. Virginia, 388 U.S. 1 (1967); Griswold v. Connecticut, 381 U.S. 479 (1965).

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parent herself also shares profoundly important stakes in the relationship and that parental rights are grounded at least partly in a social consensus about the just deserts of parents.
In Santosky v. Kramer,151 for instance, the Supreme Court rationalized heightened constitutional protection against termination of parental rights—requiring “clear and convincing evidence” of any alleged parental misconduct—on the ground that it mutually served the important interests of both children and parents.152 True, Santosky presumed that children, too, would benefit from this protection of parental rights.153 But the Court’s assertion of an identity between the interests of parents and children appeared to be more of an afterthought, intended to bat away a pesky argument for watering down parents’ rights, rather than an expression of the foundational justification for according any protection to parents’ rights.154 When it came to articulating the “private interests” that warranted heightened procedural safeguards against erroneous intervention, the Court spoke first and most emphatically about the “grave” consequences of termination for parents: “Even when blood relationships are strained,” the Court wrote, “parents retain a vital interest in preventing the irretrievable destruction of their family life.”155 The interests of children were secondary.156
In Reno v. Flores,157 the Court seemed to go even farther in acknowledging that the interests of parents are worthy of legal recognition independent of any derivative benefits to children. The Court observed that the “best interests” standard used in parent-versus-parent custody disputes does not ordinarily apply in conflicts between parents and non-parents because “the interests of the child may be subordinated to the interests of other children, or indeed even to the interests of the parents or guardians themselves.”158
151. 455 U.S. 745 (1982).
152. See id. at 765-69.
153. See id. at 760-61, 765.
154. The majority’s assertion was responding in part to the dissent’s suggestion that the
constitutional question pitted parents’ rights against countervailing children’s interests. In contrast to the majority, then-Justice Rehnquist described the constitutional choice in these terms:
When, in the context of a permanent neglect termination proceeding, the interests of the child and the State in a stable, nurturing homelife are balanced against the interests of the parents in the rearing of their child, it cannot be said that either set of interests is so clearly paramount as to require that the risk of error be allocated to one side or the other.
Id. at 790-91 (Rehnquist, J., dissenting).
155. Id. at 753.
156. See id. at 759 (“We do not deny that the child and his foster parents are also deeply
interested in the outcome of [the court’s factfinding concerning parental fault and fitness]. But at the factfinding stage of the New York proceeding, the focus emphatically is not on them.”).
157. 507 U.S. 292 (1993).
158. Id. at 304. Justice Stevens reached the same conclusion in denying a request to stay the

I am inclined to believe, therefore, that the theoretical foundations of parents’ rights under the Constitution, at least as the Supreme Court has defined them, are broader than their specific utility to children. Their instrumental value to child welfare—the “presumption that fit parents act in the best interests of their children”159—is most certainly part of the underpinning. But the profound significance of the parent-child relationship to parents, and society’s solicitude for the “grave” injury they would suffer from its attenuation,160 is independently part of what underlies the limitation on state power.161 Accordingly, parental rights under the Constitution require a recognition that all parents, regardless of their designation in a custody decree, share in these rights.
The second explanation for the courts’ reluctance to recognize constitutional protection for non-custodial parents is a pragmatic concern for the consequences. Recognizing fundamental parenting rights for non- custodial parents, it is feared, would open the floodgates to innumerable petty and burdensome claims. This was plainly a concern, for instance, animating Judge Posner’s opinion in Crowley v. McKinney,162 in which he emphasized the practical burdens that would be imposed on schools by allowing non-custodial parents to contend with custodial parents in “micromanaging” a child’s education.163 Crediting the asserted claims
court-ordered transfer of the two-year-old girl known as “Baby Jessica” from her would-be adoptive parents to her biological father. Summarily rejecting the suggestion that the Constitution required consideration of the child’s “best interests” in the matter, Justice Stevens emphasized that “[n]either Iowa law, nor Michigan law, nor federal law authorizes unrelated persons to retain custody of a child whose natural parents have not been found to be unfit simply because they may be better able to provide for her future and education.” DeBoer v. DeBoer, 509 U.S. 1301, 1302 (1993).
159. Troxel v. Granville, 530 U.S. 57, 68 (2000); see also Parham v. J.R., 442 U.S. 584, 602 (1979).
160. 455 U.S. 745, 759-66 (1982).
161. See Meyer, Partners, Care Givers, supra note 115, at 60-61. In addition to defending a
strong conception of parental autonomy on the ground that it advances the interests of children, Martin Guggenheim observes that constitutional protection also serves important adult interests:
The right to bear and raise children is at the core of an individual’s autonomy because it permits him or her the opportunity to choose the kind of life that makes the most sense. . . . Parental rights help construct and support “an aspect of human self-definition and moral choice.” This is because, for so many of us, our understanding of ourselves is based on our intimate relationships with others.
GUGGENHEIM, supra note 62, at 32 (quoting PEGGY COOPER DAVIS, NEGLECTED STORIES: THE CONSTITUTION AND FAMILY VALUES, 168 (1997)). Accordingly, he concludes:
[I]t may be misleading to suggest that the parental rights doctrine was developed for the purpose of serving children’s interests. At the very least, it is important to acknowledge that the parental rights doctrine is unjustifiable solely in terms of the value it serves to children. The doctrine furthers vital interests of American society and may be defended on grounds outside of child-focused claims.
Id. at 47.
162. 400 F.3d 965 (7th Cir. 2005).
163. See id. at 969-71.

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with strict-scrutiny protection would hamstring government—forcing school officials to jump to every demand of a meddlesome parent and depriving divorce courts of valuable discretion to craft custody arrangements that suit the unique circumstances of each family.
Further compounding the difficulty is the realization that when family members disagree about a given matter, recognizing a robust constitutional entitlement on the part of one family member may necessarily impinge on the rights of others.164 This was clearly one of the concerns driving Justice Stevens’ standing analysis in Newdow:
The difficulty . . . is that Newdow’s rights, as in many cases touching upon family relations, cannot be viewed in isolation. This case concerns not merely Newdow’s interest in inculcating his child with his views on religion, but also the rights of the child’s mother . . . . And most important, it implicates the interests of a young child who finds herself at the center of a highly public debate . . . .165
In order to avoid such entanglements, then, and to leave room for reasonable state regulations of family conflicts (over school records, custodial responsibility, or so on), courts have struggled to exclude non- custodial claims by constricting the scope of fundamental constitutional protection or by holding that any intrusions are categorically justified by the state’s “compelling interest” in child welfare.166
I am sympathetic to the latter stratagem, but I do not think it is truly convincing. The “best interests” of the child is simply too broad and amorphous a concept to qualify categorically as a compelling state interest.167 It can potentially mean nothing more than a marginal advantage over closely matched alternatives. What’s more, the Supreme Court has already indicated that it does not weight children’s “best interests” more heavily than the rights of parents. In Caban v. Mohammed,168 for example, the Court accepted that “the best interests of [illegitimate] children often may require their adoption into new families who will give them the stability of a normal, two-parent home.”169 Yet, in the next breath, it held that this interest could not justify stripping Abdiel Caban of his constitutionally protected parental status.170
164. See Dailey, Constitutional Privacy, supra note 145, at 986-87; David D. Meyer, The Paradox of Family Privacy, 53 VAND. L. REV. 527, 554-58 (2000) [hereinafter Meyer, Paradox of Family Privacy].
165. Elk Grove Unified Sch. Dist. v. Newdow, 542 U.S. 1, 15 (2004).
166. See supra notes 88-102 and accompanying text.
167. See Garnett, supra note 71, at 114.
168. 441 U.S. 380 (1979).
169. Id. at 391.
170. See id.; Reno v. Flores, 507 U.S. 292, 304 (1993) (acknowledging that child’s “best

Likewise, in Palmore v. Sidoti,171 the Court gave lip service to the “children’s interests” being a public concern of “the highest order,” but went on to hold that the trial court’s undisturbed “best interests” finding was insufficient to sustain the order through strict scrutiny.172 In Palmore, the trial court had ordered a change of custody to the father based upon the mother’s impending marriage to a man of a different race; the trial court found that suffering the racial prejudices that would be directed at her mother’s interracial household would not be in the girl’s “best interests.”173 On review, the Supreme Court did not unsettle that factual finding—indeed it frankly acknowledged that “[i]t would ignore reality to suggest that racial and ethnic prejudices do not exist” and that they might subject the young child to “a variety of pressures and stresses” that might be avoided by a change of custody.174 Yet, while insisting that “[t]he goal of granting custody based on the best interests of the child is indisputably a substantial governmental interest for purposes of the Equal Protection Clause,”175 this finding was incapable of satisfying the government’s burden under strict scrutiny of demonstrating a compelling state interest.176
Nor do I think it is appropriate to shrink the boundaries of the fundamental parenting right in order to leave desired room for reasonable state regulation or accommodation of the competing interests of other family members. In my view, Judge Posner goes too far in concluding that the Constitution is not interested in a school’s exclusion of a non-custodial parent, just as I think it incorrect to hold that parental
interests” may be subordinated to interests of parents and others); DeBoer, 509 U.S. at 1302 (declaring that a child’s “best interests” cannot justify depriving a fit parent of custody).
171. 466 U.S. 429 (1984).
172. See id. at 432-33.
173. Id. at 430-31. Of course, as Margaret Brinig properly points out, the “best interests”
concern asserted in Palmore may have “provide[d] cover for a more sinister agenda,” namely, racist objections to the mother’s choice of a new partner. See Margaret F. Brinig, The Child’s Best Interests: A Neglected Perspective on Interracial Intimacies, 117 HARV. L. REV. 2129, 2147 (2004). But the point here is that the Supreme Court did not rest its holding on any disputation with the trial court’s factfinding concerning the child’s interests. In fact, Professor Brinig’s own empirical research suggests that children of mixed-race parents may well face some additional challenges, including the greater likelihood that the parents will ultimately divorce. See id. at 2165-66 (“Mixed- race relationships seem to cause only mildly negative effects in the children involved, so long as the family remains together. Once divorce or foster care enters the picture, the children of interracial couples, holding other things constant, may be subject to a variety of psychological and behavioral effects.”).
174. Palmore, 466 U.S. at 433.
175. Id.
176. The Court explained: “The question . . . is whether the reality of private biases and the
possible injury they might inflict are permissible considerations for removal of an infant child from the custody of its natural mother. We have little difficulty concluding that they are not.” Id. (footnote omitted).

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rights generally do “not extend beyond the threshold of the school door,” as the Ninth Circuit wrote last November.177
At the same time, Judge Wood, in dissent, almost certainly goes too far when she suggests that the rights of custodial and non-custodial parents are always coextensive.178 In fact, the two reasons cited by Judge Posner for finding the parent’s interest in schooling unprotected—an assessment of the magnitude of the state’s intrusion and a recognition of the conflicting interests within the family179—could fairly support giving a lesser measure of protection to those interests.
The truth is that the pragmatic concerns militating against recognizing non-custodial parents’ rights have potential application to virtually all family privacy claims. Even within the intact family, parents’ decisions concerning the education of their children—for instance, the decision of Amish parents to forgo secondary education in favor of training on the farm—may implicate important and potentially conflicting interests of the child, as Justice Douglas emphasized in his dissent in Wisconsin v. Yoder.180 A patient’s decisions about abortion, if she is a minor, qualify the child-rearing authority of her parents.181 And, in Troxel v. Granville182—recognizing a parent’s fundamental right to
177. See Fields v. Palmdale Sch. Dist., 427 F.3d 1197, 1207 (9th Cir. 2005). On denying rehearing in May 2006, the Ninth Circuit panel retracted its “school door” phrase, but reaffirmed its holding that parents’ rights under the Constitution do not include a right “‘to direct how a public school teaches their child.’” Fields v. Palmdale Sch. Dist., 447 F.3d 1187, 1190 (9th Cir. 2006) (quotation omitted).
178. See Crowley v. McKinney, 400 F.3d 965, 975 (7th Cir. 2005) (Wood, J., dissenting in part) (“[A] noncustodial parent’s interests are no less significant than those of other parents. . . . Even if there were some tension between the rights of the two parents, it does not follow that the Constitution affords lesser protection to a noncustodial parent.”).
179. See id. at 968-69.
180. 406 U.S. 205 (1972). Justice Douglas wrote:
While the parents, absent dissent, normally speak for the entire family, the education of the child is a matter on which the child will often have decided views. He may want to be a pianist or an astronaut or an oceanographer. To do so he will have to break from the Amish tradition.
It is the future of the student, not the future of the parents, that is imperiled by today’s decision. If a parent keeps his child out of school beyond the grade school, then the child will be forever barred from entry into the new and amazing world of diversity that we have today.
Id. at 244-45 (Douglas, J., dissenting); see Emily Buss, What Does Frieda Yoder Believe?, 2 U. PA. J. CONST’L L. 53, 53 (1999) (acknowledging potential for conflicting interests between parent and child, but cautioning against active state inquiry into children’s preferences); GUGGENHEIM, supra note 62, at 44-46 (discussing potential for conflicting interests in Yoder).
181. See, e.g., Hodgson v. Minnesota, 497 U.S. 417, 444-48 (1990); Richard F. Storrow & Sandra Martinez, “Special Weight” for Best-Interests Minors in the New Era of Parental Autonomy, 2003 WIS. L. REV. 789.
182. 530 U.S. 57 (2000).

limit the visitation of grandparents—Justice Stevens cited concern for the impact that the parent’s control might have on the constitutionally protected interests of children and other family members to preserve important relationships.183
Recognition of this potential for conflict within the family, as well as of the special strength of the state’s legitimate interests in the family, has led the Supreme Court repeatedly to qualify the strength of its constitutional review in order to leave room for reasonable accommodation of the competing interests.184 In Newdow, these concerns led Justice Stevens to deny standing to the parent claimant;185 in Troxel, the very same concerns led him to endorse a softer approach to protecting parental rights on the merits.186 Despite finding a substantial state burden on the fundamental rights of parents, Troxel did not employ strict scrutiny, but instead directed trial judges simply to give “special weight” to a parent’s concerns in evaluating the competing claims to visitation.187
In protecting the fundamental right to marry in Zablocki v. Redhail,188 the Justices similarly used an ambiguous standard of scrutiny and made clear their intention to leave room for “reasonable” marriage regulations.189 In the context of abortion, Planned Parenthood v. Casey190 formally substituted the less demanding “undue burden” standard for Roe v. Wade’s nominal strict scrutiny.191 And, Lawrence v. Texas,192 which I think is fairly read to recognize a privacy right to intimate relations by a same-sex couple,193 famously eschewed strict scrutiny in favor of what Laurence Tribe has described as a “mysterious”
183. See id. at 86, 88-89 (Stevens, J., dissenting).
184. See Meyer, Paradox of Family Privacy, supra note 164, at 580-87.
185. See Elk Grove Unified Sch. Dist. v. Newdow, 542 U.S. 1, 17-18 (2004).
186. See Troxel, 530 U.S. at 70, 72-73.
187. Id. at 69. For a range of views, generally agreeing in their description of Troxel’s manner
of scrutiny, but often disagreeing in their normative assessment of that review, see Emily Buss, Adrift in the Middle: Parental Rights After Troxel v. Granville, 2000 SUP. CT. REV. 279; Janet L. Dolgin, The Constitution as Family Arbiter: A Moral in the Mess?, 102 COLUM. L. REV. 337 (2002); Stephen G. Gilles, Parental (and Grandparental) Rights After Troxel v. Granville, 9 SUP. CT. ECON. REV. 69 (2001); David D. Meyer, Lochner Redeemed: Family Privacy After Troxel and Carhart, 48 UCLA L. REV. 1125 (2001).
188. 434 U.S. 374 (1978).
189. Id. at 386; see also 3 RONALD D. ROTUNDA & JOHN E. NOWAK, TREATISE ON CONSTITUTIONAL LAW: SUBSTANCE AND PROCEDURE § 18.28, at 581 (3d ed. 1999) (noting that “[t]he majority opinion [in Zablocki] left the exact nature of the standard of review employed in this case unclear,” and concluding that the Court’s “statements indicate that the Court used a standard of review that approximates one or more of the ‘middle level standard[s] of review’”).
190. 505 U.S. 833 (1992).
191. See id. at 878-79.
192. 539 U.S. 558 (2003).
193. See David D. Meyer, Domesticating Lawrence, 2004 U. CHI. L. FORUM 453, 455-85.

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standard of scrutiny.194
The qualified scrutiny in the context of family privacy is not wholly
“mysterious,” however. There are several recurring considerations that help to guide the courts’ review. Two of these are the very factors Judge Posner cited for denying protection altogether: the magnitude of the state’s burden on privacy and the degree to which family members are united or fractured in their response to the state’s intervention.195 A third consideration in many cases is the traditionalism—or turned around, the novelty—of the competing public and private interests.196 Where all affected family members oppose a substantial governmental burden on a traditional family intimacy, constitutional protection of family privacy is at its highest. On the other hand, where the state’s intervention is relatively small or has in fact been invited by some members of a divided family, constitutional protection of family autonomy is necessarily weaker.197
It seems to me that this is an adequate framework for recognizing and resolving the constitutional claims of non-custodial parents. It would signal constitutional respect for non-custodial parents without triggering a rigid entitlement to a 182.5-day split of child custody or a general duty of school administrators to tailor each child’s curriculum to the preferences of a parent. Because it demands sensitive regard for family privacy interests—not “compelling state interests”—there would be no need to make difficult (and, in my view, unsustainable) categorical claims about the supremacy of children’s interests. But it would require that limitations on the rights of any family members, including non- custodial parents, be justified as reasonable in light of the competing considerations.
I do not wish to overclaim the benefits of this approach. In many ways, what I have suggested comes close to the result of the Wisconsin court in Arnold v. Arnold:198 It would leave courts with discretion to craft child-centered custody arrangements suited to particular families. But it would acknowledge that this discretion operates against a backdrop of a constitutional obligation of sensitivity toward the substantial private interests at stake. The flimsy conjecture and disregard of effective alternatives that is acceptable in sustaining government
194. Laurence H. Tribe, Lawrence v. Texas: The “Fundamental Right” That Dare Not Speak Its Name, 117 HARV. L. REV. 1893, 1916 (2004).
195. See Crowley v. McKinney, 400 F.3d 965, 968-69 (7th Cir. 2005).
196. See Meyer, Paradox of Family Privacy, supra note 164, at 589-90.
197. For a fuller discussion of the way in which courts consider these three factors in tailoring
their scrutiny in family privacy cases, see id. at 579-94. 198. 679 N.W.2d 296 (Wis. Ct. App. 2004).

choices under rational-basis review would not be permitted. But neither would the government be required to prove that it effectively had no choice but to burden the constitutional interests of the parent.
In all likelihood, the “soft” form of constitutional protection would stand, for all practical purposes, like an additional “abuse of discretion” check against extreme cases. I would not expect this approach to result in dramatically different outcomes from the ones we have already considered. Schools could continue to place reasonable limitations on parents’ access to the classroom, but they could not altogether exclude a parent from his child’s schooling, as in Crowley,199 without offering a sound reason. Likewise, this approach would recognize a constitutional duty to justify significantly unequal allocations of custodial authority, but would recognize child welfare as a sufficient (even if not necessarily “compelling”) justification.
Although this would not change the mandates in many cases, it would likely change some. And it would express greater respect and a greater expectation for the child-rearing roles of non-custodial parents. In this respect, it might help to shift social norms toward their more sustained involvement in the lives of their children.200
There are genuine costs to this approach. Professor Brinig, for example, cautions that “[c]onstitutionalizing child custody, or litigating in terms of individual parents’ rights, is likely to harm children in many ways.”201 The proliferation of “rights talk” may encourage litigiousness and obscure the parties’ consideration of their own responsibilities and the value of informal accommodation—to the obvious detriment of their children.202 But the magnitude of the most likely harms—promoting conflict between parents or causing a child to endure an ill-advised joint physical custody arrangement203—depends partly upon the degree to
199. Crowley, 400 F.3d at 969.
200. As Katherine Hunt Federle has observed in the context of children’s rights, recognition as
a rights-holder in the American legal context can be an important marker of social respect and validation. See Katherine Hunt Federle, Looking for Rights in All the Wrong Places: Resolving Custody Disputes in Divorce Proceedings, 15 CARDOZO L. REV. 1523, 1524-25 (1994) (“To be a powerful individual in our society is to command respect, in the broadest possible sense, and to be taken seriously—to make claims and to have them heard, and to have independent value and worth as a being.”).
201. Brinig, Parental Autonomy, supra note 16, at 1369; see also Margaret F. Brinig, Troxel and the Limits of Community, 32 RUTGERS L.J. 733, 761-65 (2001).
202. See MARY ANN GLENDON, RIGHTS TALK: THE IMPOVERISHMENT OF POLITICAL DISCOURSE (1991); Clare Huntington, Rights Myopia in Child Welfare, 53 UCLA L. REV. 637, 639- 40 (2006) (criticizing a focus on rights in the context of child welfare law and warning that “rights will never be the primary way to produce good results for families because the rights-based model creates, or at least perpetuates, an adversarial process for decisionmaking”); Schepard, supra note 149, at 735 (discussing detriment to children from post-divorce conflict and litigation).
203. See Brinig, Parental Autonomy, supra note 16, at 1369.

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which recognizing constitutional rights will strip courts of their ability to safeguard children’s interests. Unlike a rigid strict scrutiny approach, the more flexible review I envision—a review I believe the courts already engage in—would leave room to avoid such results, just as Troxel contemplates that judges will continue to be able to order visitation where necessary to preserve relationships that are unusually important to the child.
Nor do I think recognizing these rights would be unduly burdensome for the courts. The Rooker-Feldman doctrine, among other obstacles, would continue to limit lower federal court review, and it is important to see that courts, to a significant degree, are already in the business of resolving these claims. It is only that today they resolve these claims by adjusting the boundaries of constitutional protection rather than reviewing the reasonableness of the challenged state action.
In closing, let me be clear that I actually share the wariness of many scholars about the further “constitutionalization” of family law.204 Its benefits are often modest, and the costs can be significant. But my concern is that, in a very real sense, we are already there. Having already injected rights talk into family law and custody disputes, we have no better alternative than to see the process through. Stopping short— recognizing “family privacy” rights only in custodial parents, or only in traditional families, or only where parents do not disagree about their childrearing preferences—leaves the Constitution as a distorting force in family law, while substantial family interests are left at the mercy either of state actors or of other family members who are accorded constitutional privilege.
Child custody should not be primarily about the rights of parents. My hope is that acknowledging rights in non-custodial parents would help to usher in the ultimate realization that the best the Constitution can ever do in the realm of family privacy is to require sensitivity in balancing the interests of all.
204. See, e.g., id.; GLENDON, supra note 202; Carl E. Schneider, State-Interest Analysis in Fourteenth Amendment “Privacy” Law: An Essay on the Constitutionalization of Social Issues, 51 LAW & CONTEMP. PROBS. 79 (1988).

The appearance of a bad social worker seems to be like most of them ?

February 14, 2016 § Leave a comment

Judge criticises independent social worker for ‘face value’ assessment of abusive father
The independent social worker’s evidence was in direct conflict with that of two other social workers assessing the man

by Rachel Schraer on February 12, 2016 in Child safeguarding, Children, Legal, Workforce
Photo: PhotoAlto/REX Shutterstock
Photo: PhotoAlto/REX Shutterstock
A judge has criticised an independent social worker for failing to properly fulfil the role of expert witness in a care proceedings case.

Judge Greene took the unusual step of instructing an independent social worker to give evidence, during a hearing concerning the care of five children, all from the same mother (referred to as D), but fathered by two men, known as G and E.

While D was not actively pursuing care of her children, both of the fathers had put themselves forward to care for their respective children.

Children at risk

In an earlier hearing with a different judge, the children remained in D’s care only on the condition that an injunction was made to keep G away, so great was the risk he was deemed to pose to the children and their mother. However, E, was allowed contact with the children.

This was later changed to supervised contact following concerns E was failing to manage the children’s behaviour, as well as physically chastising them.

‘Horrifying’ contact

Both the local authority social worker and the children’s guardian witnessed the contact sessions. The social worker said the contact had been “chaotic” while the children’s guardian, Judge Greene said, described what she had witnessed as “horrifying”.

“She said that it was appalling and some of the worst contact she has ever seen. That is a very extreme thing for a guardian to say and she is a very experienced guardian,” Judge Greene told the court.

Conflicting reports

However the independent social worker, in clear conflict with these reports, said the contact he observed was “positive and enjoyable”.

While the judge conceded children do not always behave the same and some allowance must be made for good days and bad days, he said it became clear when considering the independent social worker’s answers to questions in cross-examination that his report had been based very much on E’s own self-reporting.

Face value

“There seemed to be no attempt to go behind that. What E said to him seemed to be taken at face value and the observations were not analysed or put into the context of the very concerning background.

“It was concerning that he was not even sure which of the documents he had read,” Judge Greene said.

“I sadly conclude that the report and evidence from [the independent social worker] did not properly fulfil the role of an expert witness.”

The judge ordered all five children to be taken into foster care following G breaching his injunction and becoming involved in several violent altercations with D, one of which resulted in her fracturing her eye socket.

He recommended the younger two should be placed for adoption and the older three cared for in longer term foster care without contact with their father.

Where do these people that destroy children’s lives get out of being sick beside the monies the gov. gives?

February 20, 2015 § Leave a comment

Legally Kidnapped
One Way To Reduce Foster Runaways: Have Fewer Foster Teens
Parents whose children were taken away stage protest against Liverpool family court judge Robert Dodds
Sen. Kane to CT DCF Commissioner Katz: “You failed on the first four years.”
New child-welfare chief: Stop ‘potential law breaking’
Dead UK mother loses Australian custody fight
ACLU sues for records on abuse of immigrant children
Juvenile corrections officer in Orange charged with abuse for rubbing kids’ shoes in urine
Police force apologises to 59 alleged victims in 30 child abuse cases over bungled investigations
Child welfare officials on defensive over child death ‘transparency’
This Mom Got Charged With Child Neglect For Taking Her Son on an Adoption Trip
Life As A Foster Runaway: Drugs, Danger And Pregnancy
Harsh judgment for a harsh care system
Alert canceled: Teen mom, infant son found safe in Seattle
Mother sentenced for kidnapping son
One Way To Reduce Foster Runaways: Have Fewer Foster Teens
Posted: 12 Feb 2015 08:50 PM PST
One Way To Reduce Foster Runaways: Have Fewer Foster Teens

Washington’s Department of Social and Health Services now has a team of social workers whose sole job is to find foster youth who run away.

Parents whose children were taken away stage protest against Liverpool family court judge Robert Dodds
Posted: 12 Feb 2015 02:04 PM PST
Parents whose children were taken away stage protest against Liverpool family court judge Robert Dodds

PARENTS whose children have been taken away at the hands of a Liverpool family court judge staged a protest outside court today.

Sen. Kane to CT DCF Commissioner Katz: “You failed on the first four years.”
Posted: 12 Feb 2015 01:38 PM PST
Sen. Kane to CT DCF Commissioner Katz: “You failed on the first four years.”

Two Republican senators roundly criticized her leadership, but Joette Katz held firm against independent oversight and at the end of a long afternoon was unanimously endorsed in a bi-partisan vote of the legislature’s nominating committee for a second term as child-protection commissioner.
New child-welfare chief: Stop ‘potential law breaking’
Posted: 12 Feb 2015 01:12 PM PST
New child-welfare chief: Stop ‘potential law breaking’

New child-welfare director Greg McKay suggests his predecessors at the Department of Child Safety may have been close to breaking the law, according to a memo McKay sent to staff Tuesday evening.

Dead UK mother loses Australian custody fight
Posted: 12 Feb 2015 12:25 PM PST
Dead UK mother loses Australian custody fight

An English woman who did not want her two children to live with her ex-husband in Australia has lost a fight from beyond the grave in a British court.
ACLU sues for records on abuse of immigrant children
Posted: 12 Feb 2015 12:10 PM PST
ACLU sues for records on abuse of immigrant children

The Arizona branch of the American Civil Liberties Union filed a lawsuit against the U.S. Department of Homeland Security on Wednesday, demanding that the agency hand over records detailing mistreatment of children held by the Border Patrol.

Juvenile corrections officer in Orange charged with abuse for rubbing kids’ shoes in urine
Posted: 12 Feb 2015 12:01 PM PST
Juvenile corrections officer in Orange charged with abuse for rubbing kids’ shoes in urine

A former corrections officer at the Juvenile Hall in Orange was charged Tuesday on suspicion of child abuse after prosecutors say she rubbed the shoes of three minors in urine while on duty, the Orange County District Attorney’s Office announced.

Police force apologises to 59 alleged victims in 30 child abuse cases over bungled investigations
Posted: 12 Feb 2015 11:25 AM PST
Police force apologises to 59 alleged victims in 30 child abuse cases over bungled investigations

Essex Police has been forced to apologise to 59 alleged victims after a major investigation was launched into its handling of dozens of child abuse investigations, including cases of rape.
Child welfare officials on defensive over child death ‘transparency’
Posted: 12 Feb 2015 09:40 AM PST
Child welfare officials on defensive over child death ‘transparency’

Florida’s top child welfare officials were on the defensive before a House committee on Wednesday as they defended an annual report on child deaths that had been stripped of data and embarrassing details about the state’s role in failing to protect the children whose lives were lost.

This Mom Got Charged With Child Neglect For Taking Her Son on an Adoption Trip
Posted: 12 Feb 2015 09:32 AM PST
This Mom Got Charged With Child Neglect For Taking Her Son on an Adoption Trip

How much missed school is cause for legal concern? For Washington DC mom Jessica Smith, it only took 20 days of absence for her son’s school to send her to court for criminal child neglect. However, the missed days of school weren’t due to oversleeping or laziness — rather, Smith had brought her son Ziggy along on an adoption trip to Mongolia. Ziggy, who was adopted from Mongolia himself, had been begging his mom for a younger sibling, so when the same orphanage alerted Smith that they found a match for their little family, it seemed like a no-brainer.

Life As A Foster Runaway: Drugs, Danger And Pregnancy
Posted: 12 Feb 2015 08:22 AM PST
Life As A Foster Runaway: Drugs, Danger And Pregnancy

Rural Thurston County in Washington is the kind of place people move to for a little elbow room. But if you’re a teenager from the suburbs, life can be less than exciting.

Harsh judgment for a harsh care system
Posted: 12 Feb 2015 07:41 AM PST
Harsh judgment for a harsh care system

Switzerland is going through a process of atonement for historic wrongs committed against children in care. The players are often reduced to simple stereotypes: cruel authorities and exploitative foster parents, with little mention of the other main culprit – poverty.

Alert canceled: Teen mom, infant son found safe in Seattle
Posted: 12 Feb 2015 07:29 AM PST
Alert canceled: Teen mom, infant son found safe in Seattle

An Endangered Missing Person’s alert has been issued out of Tacoma for a 6-month-old boy who was taken from foster care by his teen mother.

Mother sentenced for kidnapping son
Posted: 12 Feb 2015 07:15 AM PST
Mother sentenced for kidnapping son

Denise Michelle Shaver, 39, of Keswick pleaded guilty Tuesday to the July 7, 2014, abduction of her 15-year-old son from his foster home in Level Run.

DCFS /DHS/CPS/CSE/ What do they all have in common The APPEARANCE of the most hidden CHILD ABUSE daily.

January 8, 2015 § Leave a comment

The bottom line here is State funding the #…..So no children stolen no no monies to the state for the SSI TITLE A-F FUNDS (YOUR SSI RETIREMENT MONEY) directives are to generate funding in each district so what are they the best at THE APPEARANCE OF stealing children …

The problem is and will always be with us until we see where all the monies go first the state then the counties then maybe the towns then maybe to the children…

Find the money trail by FOIA TO EACH AGENCY IN YOUR STATE…they all have funding coming from DHS IN GRANT FORM TO HIDE HOW THEY RELIEVE THE FUNDS….


800 babies dead how many more sights like this the appearance they have this is the US as well?

June 4, 2014 § Leave a comment

Mass grave with bones of up to 800 kids found in Ireland
Remains thrown in septic tank by nuns at home of unwed mothers

03 June 201414:16News
(ANSA) – London, June 3 – The bodies of as many as 800 children have been found in a mass grave in western Ireland at a former home for unwed mothers run by nuns between 1925 and 1961, Irish media reported.
Many of the children died of disease and malnutrition and their bodies were thrown into a septic tank.
The discovery in Tuam, where nuns from the Bon Secours order ran the home for pregnant unmarried women, sheds more light on a dark period in the history of Catholic Ireland, where pregnancy outside marriage was often treated as one of the worst possible crimes.
Police are continuing to investigate and media reports say that the Catholic Church is discussing construction of a memorial to the children.
Irish Central newspaper quoted local historian Catherine Corless, who says she recalled growing up the so-called “Home Babies” who she said were segregated by nuns at school and treated badly by everyone.
She said that she was moved as an adult to research what became of the children, and through a regional health board tracked down the records of the deaths of 796 children at the home.
The records listed names, birth dates and sometimes included cause of death for each child.

Suicide note of Chris Mackney,

April 26, 2014 § Leave a comment


I never wanted to speak out about any of this. All I wanted was a fair and reasonable child support, fair and reasonable visitation with my children and be free to move on with my life. The only reason I chose to write this blog and speak out about the abuse was because I thought it would give me some kind of leverage, as I had none. I made it clear to my ex-
wife’s attorney
that the Court was not allowing me to change the orders, I had no information about my children and my child support was far beyond my ability to pay. I was was hoping for some act of good faith to let me know that they wanted to reduce the conflict. It never came, not in 5 years. I felt that my only recourse was to speak out about the abuse and injustice in order to get the legal and psychological help I needed to manage the conflict, so that we could both parent our children. I reached out to my ex-
wife’s attorney again to ask for ANY other alternative.
They offered none, so I started the blog. Even after I started the Blog, I reached out again to tell them I would take down the blog if a Guardian Ad Litem could be appointed. They never responded. Dina knew
this would be the outcome and didn’t care. As long as I was gone.
In hindsight, I recognize that my reactions to being bullied, abused and denied access to my children gave my ex-
wife’s attorney the ammunition they were looking for to bring me into
Court, but nothing I said or done would have made a difference. I was powerless. I thought that at some point a third party would be involved that would recognize that my reactions were from the emotional abuse; being denied access to my children and bullied in Court. The Court refused at least 6 requests for third party intervention. All of the research said that a third party was the recommended course of action in these situations. A third party was the only way to truly understand the conflict. I was not the person being portrayed in Court. I had no control over anything. The Court would only listen to my ex-
wife’s a
ttorney granting all of their motions and
agreeing to all their “over

reaching” remedies.
When I read online about the patterns of behavior of high conflict divorce and how my ex-wife was the one blocking access to the children and negatively interpreting everything I did, I spoke out and tried to address the source of conflict. No one would tell me I was wrong, but no one would speak out about the abuse on my behalf, not the Doctors or attorneys. Experts in psychology have called it abuse, but none would
make such a ‘diagnosis’, which I
could then take to Court to obtain relief. As long as the pattern of behavior was not called
‘abuse’, my reactions would not be viewed in its proper context, by the Court.
The way I looked at it was that if I remained silent, the abuse would continue. It did. When I
finally decided to speak out, they didn’t care.

They didn’t care about how it would affect Dr.
Samenow, Judge Bellows, our children, themselves or anyone else. They were not going to take their foot off the back of my neck.
They were fully invested in having me out of my children’s
lives, permanently. Bullying and parental alienation are all forms of emotional abuse. Psychopathy is an emotional dysfunction. People with psychopathy are identified by how they handle conflict. It is the disturbing lack of empathy, guilt shame, remorse that give them away. They are completely unaffected by the distress of others. As long as they get what they want, you may never see that side of them. If you are in a position of power or status, you will probably not see that side of them either. However, people that are close to them or are of little value to them, will eventually see the pattern. They will slowly begin to realize they are being controlled

manipulated and
‘gas lighted’
. Without even realizing it, you learn to go along to get along. If you break from this, you will experience their wrath. I remember on Memorial Day 2008, when I went to pick up my children for lunch at their grandparents house, Pete Scamardo came outside
to confront me. I looked at him and said “Pete, you are nothing but a bully.”
He responded
“That’s right, and I love it!’
He said this in front of Dina, he wife and my children. When I got
in the car to take my children to lunch, my son asked me “Dad, what’s a bully?”
Pete Scamardo and Dina Mackney are the most
father/daughter psychopaths ever to fool the Court. Pete Scamardo has over 100 lawsuits in Fairfax County alone. The litigants in these cases can confirm the patterns. The enitre Scamardo family was accused of fraud by Maryland National Bank for $80 Million. Pete and Dina also circumvented the Thoroughbred Ownership licensing laws of Virginia, Maryland and West Virginia. One of her friends from college now refers to
her the ‘c’ word
after seeing the real Dina, after working with her. Most of you will not see that side of her, unless you run into conflict. While I am the one that took my own life, this was a murder conceived and financed by Pete Scamardo who hired Jim Cottrell and Kyle Bartol the day after I discovered he was a murderer, and then paid over $1 Million in legal fees to make it happen.
People ‘targeted’ by psychopaths call it

‘murder by suicide’
. I was a good father to my children when I was in their lives. No one can dispute or deny that.
Dr. Samenow even admitted under oath that I had a ‘palpable’ relationship with my kids. I
know I was an extremely loving and positive influence on their lives and it kills me that I even feel like I have to defend my parenting. My children were the only source of joy and happiness in my marriage.
For the Judge Bellows to deny parents and children a ‘palpable relationship’ and each other’s love is corruption.
He did not want it to be known that Dr. Samenow committed fraud or that
Judge Terrence Ney had a ‘close relationship’
with a convicted murderer or a parental alienator. The love that my daughter and I shared was truly special. She is a such a sweet, kind and gentle spirit. I am so sorry that I will not be there to see her grow into a beautiful woman. It absolutely crushed me to not be in her life over the last three years. I worked very hard as a father to build her confidence and self-esteem.
She is smart, funny and considerate, but she didn’t know it
yet. I pray that she realizes her strengths and her confidence in herself will continue to grow. I love you dearly, Lily. My son Jack was just entering Kindergarten, when I lost access to him. He is gregarious, outgoing and a great athlete. He is smart and fearless. He could have just as much fun by himself as he could with other kids. Even the older boys in our neighborhood wanted to play with Jack. It absolutely breaks my heart that I will not be able to help him grow into a man. I love you to, Jack. I miss you both so much. My identity was taken from me, as result of this process. When it began, I was a commercial real estate broker with CB Richard Ellis. I lived by the Golden rule and made a living by bringing parties together and finding the common ground. My reputation as a broker was built on my honesty and integrity. When it ended, I was broke, homeless, unemployed and had no visitation with my own children. I had no confidence and was paralyzed with fear that I would be going to jail whenever my ex-wife wanted. Nothing I could say or do would stop it. This is
what being to death or ‘targeted’ by a psychopath looks like
. This is the outcome.
I didn’t somehow change into a ‘hig
conflict’ person or lose my ability to steer clear of the law.

had never been arrested, depressed, homeless or suicidal before this process. The stress and pressure applied to me was deliberate and nothing I could do or say would get me any relief. Nothing I or my attorneys said to my ex-
wife’s attorney or to the Court made any
difference. Truth, facts, evidence or even the best interest of my children had no affect on the outcome. The family court system is broken, but from my experience, it is not the laws, its the lawyers. They feed off of the conflict. They are not hired to reduce conflict or protect the best interest of children, which is why third parties need to be involved. It should be mandatory for children to have a guardian ad litem, with extensive training in abuse and aggression. It is absolutely shameful that the Fairfax County Court did nothing to intervene or understand the ongoing conflict. Judge Randy Bellows also used the Children as punishment, by withholding access for failing to fax a receipt. The entire conflict centered around the denial of access to the children, it was inconceivable to me that he would use children like this. This is exactly what my ex-wife was doing and now Judge Bellows was doing it for her. To all my family, friends and the people that supported me through this process, I am so sorry. I know my reactions and behavior throughout this process did not always make sense. None of this made sense to me either. I had no help and the only suggestion I got from my attorneys was to remain silent. At first, I did what I was told, remained silent and listened to my attorneys. Then after I had given my ex-wife full custody to try and appease her, I learned about Psychopathy and emailed Dr. Samenow about my concerns and asked him for help. Of course, I was ignored. As the conflict
continued, I was forced to defend myself. When that didn’t work, I
thought I could get the help I needed by speaking out. There is no right or wrong way to defend yourself from abuse. Naively, I thought that abuse was abuse and it would be recognized and something would be done. I thought speaking out would end the abuse or at least get them to back off.
It didn’t. When no one did anything they were emboldened.
I took my own life because I had come to the conclusion that there was nothing I could do or say to end the abuse. Every time I got up off my knees, I would get knocked back down. They were not going to let me be the father I wanted to be to my children. People may think I am a coward
for giving up on my children, but I didn’t see how I was goin
g to heal from this. I have no money for an attorney, therapy or medication. I have lost 4 jobs because of this process. I was going to be at their mercy for the rest of my life and they had shown me none. Being alienated, legally abused, emotionally abused, isolated and financially ruined are all a recipe for suicide. I wish I were stronger to keep going, but the emotional pain and fear of going to court and jail became overwhelming. I became paralyzed with fear.
I couldn’t flee and I could not fight. I
was never going to be allowed to heal or recover. I wish I were better at articulating the psychological and emotional trauma I experienced. I could fill a book with all the lies and mysterious rulings of the Court. Never have I experienced this kind of pain. I asked for help, but good men did nothing and evil prevailed. All I wanted was a Guardian Ad Litem for my children. Any third party would have been easily been able to confirm or refute all of my allegations, which is why none was ever appointed to protect the children or reduce the conflict.
Abuse is about power and control. Stand up for the abused and speak out. If someone speaks out about abuse, believe them. Please teach my children empathy and about emotional invalidation
and ‘gas

lighting’ or they
may end up like me. God have mercy on my soul. Chris Mackney


Lets Have the House Pass bills that have the Appearance they promote Lawyers not Families in divorce supporting the ISBA in Illinois.

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Wednesday, March 14, 2012
Illinois House Endorses Extortion of Parents in Family Court
The family courts allow court-appointed child representatives and guardian ad litems in divorce court (family court) to extort families and impoverish them by ordering payment to them of $300 to $1200 per hr – often with final bills of >> $50,000, in addition to paying outrageous rates to private attorneys for each parent, as well as paying for psychological counselors and other court appointed persons who evaluate the family situation. As the average American family makes around $40,000 – $60,000, this guarantees that families will be impoverished. then the judges order the families home sold, children’s college funds confiscated, and all assets sold to pay these fees.

This surely is not in the best interest of the children as the state law mandates!

Stand up and be counted – complain to the press, your House Representative, your State Senator, you Illinois Senator Durbin, and your Illinois Representative, and your Cook County Board Member.


March 14, 2012

TO: All Members of Judiciary I- Civil Law Committee

FROM: Milijana Vlastelica, On behalf of all victims of court-ordered child representation

Subject: The Judiciary’s Objection to $150/Hour Fee Cap to the Court-Appointed

Children’s Attorneys as Provided in House Bill 5544 Deviates from the

Legislature’s Established Practices; Some Possible Solutions
Most of us are still recovering from the Judiciary’s objection [February 29, 2012] to establishing the fee caps for the court-appointed children’s attorneys in divorce cases especially that this objection is not in sync with the Legislature’s well-established practice to set the exact hourly rate for other types of court-appointed attorneys. For example, in death-penalty cases, the Legislature did not leave it up to the court-appointed private attorney to set his own hourly rate, but it capped his fees at $125/hour (adjusted for COLA) per 725 ILCS 124-10. In non-death penalty cases, attorney’s fees are based on 725 ILCS 5/113-3, set at $40/hour for court time and $30/hour for non-court times.
Therefore, it is difficult to comprehend where this rationale, which some Representatives expressed that the court-appointed children’s attorney should be making as much money as privately retained attorneys, comes from.
Our research indicates that nowhere in this country are the court-appointed attorneys allowed to set their own hourly rate except in Illinois in the Family Court.
Per the attached research article entitled, “Issues Relating to Guardians ad Litem”, dated January 2003, the Hawaii Legislative Reference Bureau conducted a study of the practices that exist in Hawaii and on the mainland with respect to guardian ad litem and appointed counsel in child protective cases and in the Family Court. The Bureau’s research reveals that the court-appointed guardians in other states are paid either flat fee per case or block of cases per contract or fixed hourly rate. For example, in Alaska attorney GALs receive $70 to $80 an hour; in Arkansas, guardian ad litems are salaried between $37,000 – $57,000 per year depending on experience; Attorney ad litem contractors who are part-time receive $800 per case per year; In California, Contract attorneys are paid flat rates per event. The juvenile court panel of attorneys are compensated at a rate of $75 per hour in court and $50 for out of court work. If an attorney had twenty-five cases, the attorney would receive $20,000 per year; In Colorado, some attorneys were compensated on an hourly basis and others on a flat-fee basis; most attorneys who represent children in dependency and neglect cases currently are paid a flat fee of $1,040 per case for 24 months of representation. If the case has not yet closed after 24 months, attorneys may bill at hourly rates of $45 for out-of court work and $55 for in-court work (which is the same rate paid to other public attorneys in Colorado).
Upon the Hawaii Legislative Bureau’s comprehensive research, the Bureau concluded and recommended that, “Attorneys providing guardian ad litem services should be compensated equivalent to other ‘public service’ attorneys”.
Here in Illinois, without any formal studies, some members of Judiciary concluded that the court-appointed children’s attorney in divorce cases, should be making as much money as mom’s and dad’s privately retained attorneys. As shown above, this practice deviates from the well-established standards that the Illinois Legislature adopted in the past which is to cap the fees for all court-appointed attorneys; and, it also deviates from the standards established by the rest of the United States.
Therefore, this letter is a plea to those members of Judiciary to reconsider their position, and to realize that the only solution is capping the fees at $150/hour or establishing some type of flat amounts.
If we set the court-appointed children’s attorneys fee to be a flat $1000 per case as some other states are doing it, but with the explicit provisions that they cannot withdraw from the case until the case is concluded, and that they must attend all hearings and all status dates where they are not needed (because they are currently doing it, and billing the parents), I guarantee that all the cases would be concluded much faster. The divorcing parents would have money left for their children’s education; the courts would not be overbooked; we may not need as many family court judges, and this would help the Illinois budget as well.
In the alternative, if some Representatives continue objecting to the fee cap of $150/hour and/or insist that the court-appointed child representative should be making as much money as privately retained mom’s and dad’s attorneys, then, perhaps the Legislature can afford the parents some remedy by revoking the absolute immunity that the Courts recently gave to the court-appointed children’s attorneys. If the court-appointed children’s attorneys want to be, and deserve to be at the same pay level or higher than the mom’s and dad’s privately retained attorneys, then they also should be held accountable for their actions and professional negligence. If mom’s or dad’s attorney provides substandard level of service, he or she can be sued for legal malpractice. The court-appointed child representatives, on the other hand, cannot be sued for professional negligence or intentional tort no matter how much they damage the child. Nowhere on Planet Earth does this exist that a private professional in a capacity of a court-appointee sets his own hourly rate, can make as much as one million in annual revenue, and not be held liable for his work or lack thereof.
In addition, I would recommend that the judges have no input as to which private attorney is awarded these appointments. Currently, the same judges always appoint the same child representatives. This practice, where a trial court can award an extremely lucrative business to a private attorney, provides a breeding ground for corruption, whether it is happening or not.


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